Sad to say, I've totally drifted away from two of the girls that were in my bridal party. We don't talk at all anymore. I'm still super, super close to the other two girls, though.
What about you?
Sad to say, I've totally drifted away from two of the girls that were in my bridal party. We don't talk at all anymore. I'm still super, super close to the other two girls, though.
What about you?
eggplant / 11287 posts
Still super close with one, and the other two friends I talk with about once a month or so, maybe less. The other four were all sisters/SIL so I am still close with them..
GOLD / pear / 1845 posts
I had my cousin and best friend, I'm still super close with both of them, chat at least once a week.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Still close to two. One is currently acting weird because of baby names!
pomelo / 5073 posts
My sisters were my bridesmaids, so yes. The readers were two close friends, one I see daily and the other lives in another state, but we talk on the phone or text.
pineapple / 12234 posts
Bridesmaids, yes since they are my sisters and best friend. The groomsmen? No way! DH talks with two of them maybe once every other month. The other, he talks to maybe every 6 months.
nectarine / 2019 posts
I talk to all of mine, but DH no longer talks to one of his groomsmen. I think they would have actually stopped talking prior to us getting married if DH hadn't asked him to be in the wedding
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Yup. We had one person stand up for us and it was perfect. The same people are going to be our lo's god parents.
grapefruit / 4823 posts
3 were my sister, SIL and cousin. Another was my friend we chat maybe once every 2-3 weeks(and DS was actually born on her birthday). My MOH has been a little distant since I had DS, but there are reasons I think that may be
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
I was scared of that so I chose only family. I had my SIL and sister. So yes, we're still close
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
One was my sister, another cousin, then four friends. Still close with all.
persimmon / 1408 posts
I had 5 and am super close with 3 still... The other 2 cheated on their husbands (who were hubby's groomsmen). They dropped off the face of the earth after they announced the divorces. We are still pretty close with the ex-husbands though!
Everyone told me that there would be at least 1 or 2 that I wouldn't be friends with anymore after a while and I just couldn't believe it. Sad but true!
coconut / 8475 posts
1 passed away and she was my bf and yea we were close post wedding and until her last day:(
1 moved overseas so were friends but I rarely see/talk to her because I don't have a FB.
1 was a cousin I was forced to have...enough said!
And my MOH was my sister and yes we're super close:)
coconut / 8299 posts
Still super close to all of them. We've all know each other since jr high and have maintained a super close friendship throughout the years.
coconut / 8498 posts
Yep. 3 friends that I grew up with, 1 cousin, and my SIL. I've actually gotten closer with them all since the wedding.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Yep, everyone besides my MOH - who simply disappeared out of our lives. (that's a whole other story).
coconut / 8234 posts
@TurtleDoves: That's really sad. I'm sorry to hear that.
I had my sister, BFF from college, BFF from H.S., and another high-school friend/roommate. I am close with everyone except the high school friend/roommate who dumped me via mass e-mail because no one liked her partner. We had been friends since we were 14 and I got dumped via E-MAIL! I'm bitter
But I am thankful to have such great girlfriends, including my little sis!
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
I only had one person in my party, my maid of honor. We're still semi-close, but definitely not as close as we used to be.
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
Yup, but our wedding wasn't even a year ago yet (anniversary is 9/24)!
persimmon / 1396 posts
Our wedding was 2 years ago, and we are still close with everyone in our party. 5 bridesmaids and 5 groomsmen This makes me very happy.
grapefruit / 4703 posts
Yup, because they were all our siblings! (except for my MOH, who is my BFF - we've been like sisters since we were 7 though, so I include her in my "siblings")
honeydew / 7504 posts
For the most part. My MOH was my sister. My other bridesmaids (5 others) were all my best friends from high school. I had kind of lost touch with 2 of them, but one is now dating my brother-in-law, so we've been talking more again. And the other one I've still kind of lost touch with, but that's been my choice/doing. Too much drama.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Yep! my 4 friends that stood up for me just threw my baby shower last week, my cousin just text me yesterday to see how I was feeling and sent pics of her twins, and the other 2 were my sisters so I see them weekly.
It was very important to me to pick people who I know would be with me 10-15 years down the road. I have been a bridesmaid 13 times so it was a difficult decision, but I know in the end it was right.
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