Some of my friends are interested in LO and they ask for pictures and they try to visit often. Some of my other friends never ask about her so I never bring her up and we talk about other stuff! I think they may have congratulated us when she was born but that was the last mention of the baby!
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I have friends that didn't come to see her until she was over a month old. It made me really sad, and I tried to think of it like my wedding when they weren't interested because they weren't married so they didn't get it..... but I made and grew a baby in my belly! At least pretend to care!
Of course now that they're planning weddings they want me to be all sorts of interested though. And of course I ask questions.
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I think you find out who your "real" friends are when you get married and then have a baby...some friends will stay interested no matter what stage you are in your life and other friends tend to disappear. This definitely happened with one of my bridesmaids - I haven't heard a peep from her since LO was born in June but at the same time, I haven't reached out to her either
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We have some friends where we let them take the lead. If they bring the girls up, fine but otherwise we don't talk about them.
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yup most of my friends dont have babies and they are always asking about him and bringing him stuff. there afriad to hold him though, its funny!
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we actually didn't really have any friends for awhile... not until we found a new church right before I got pregnant. so the friends we have now were our friends thru my pregnancy so they all love LO, some of them have kids, some are pregnant and some will probably be getting pregnant soon.
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Yes! Not all but a few. It's acually quite nice. I didn't expect that to be honest.
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Not many of my friends have kids yet, but I ask about them when we talk. I love kids though. It's so neat to see my friends with their babies.
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Yes. Even ones who don't want to get married or have kids. True friends!
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Some are, some aren't. I don't take it personally. A lot of people who talk about their kids just go on and on, and it'd be all too easy to be that person myself if I didn't force myself to chill out.
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Tons are interested and have said they want to visit and meet the baby.... only 2 friends actually made that effort. We have about 15 friends between me and DH who live in the area. The other friends get a pass because they live too far away.
Actually a friend is flying in from Chicago next week! She wins the prize!!
The ones who aren't interested--that is cool with me.
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