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@babycanuck: same! lol! I have to argue or deal with things right then, and DH will definitely simmer or try to put things off. He doesn't blow up too often but whoaa when he does. It's gotten better lately, but yeah, we definitely have opposite styles of dealing with things!

Somewhere in the middle... I guess it depends how urgent the issue is. Assuming it's not make a decision this minute, it could be the same day or in a day or so. I like to talk things out at the time... though I do tend to speak as I'm thinking so it can come out a bit jumbled. DH prefers a bit of time to mull things over, so if we speak about it a bit later it makes for a better discussion.

I deal with it now and he deals with it later.

It's taught both of us to ease up a little. I've learned to give him more space and he's learned to come to me sooner rather than later about issues. It's amazing how we've grown.

DH is deal with now. I am more like here's what I want to talk about, so what's the best time to chat. Every time he says Now.