apricot / 344 posts
@pui: Really?! He owes you some flowers or a mani-pedi or something. Big oops! But I'm sure he's very sorry.
@MRSHONEYBEAR: There's still a good chance, for sure.
nectarine / 2086 posts
@mrshoneybear: i really don't think you've hurt your chances. especially if you BD'd the 2 days before! i think that's actually even better because who knows exactly what time of day you O'd and how long the egg hung around for so i think it would be better to make sure there's some spermies already there waiting on it!
cherry / 160 posts
Sigh - I've been spotting the last few days so I'm thinking AF is on her way. I had some hope that the spotting was implantation bleeding when it was brown but now it's bright red
bananas / 9899 posts
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BIG FAT POSITIVES
Congrats to these April mamas!
SupernovaJ
chibee
nana87
T.H.O.U.
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POAS DATES WITH DESTINY
Keep us updated as your date approaches!
11th - Meridian
12th - mfa_lady, littlek, MrsMcD
14th - fotolori1, PEAPIE
15th - PrincessBab
16th - Torchwood
17th - sera_87, jhd, heybrookeashley, littleredhairedgrl, FaithFertility
19th - mrsog
20th - sweetkeight, Sprite
21st - ellewoods84, Claire.Peonies
24th - runnerd, Boopers, Pui
25th - MRSHONEYBEAR
26th - MrsCDH
28th - Tundra Daisy, Littlebit
29th - AlmostMrsG
TBA - NorCalWayfarer, doxielove, tarabonno
ROLLOVERS
Looking forward to seeing you again in September!
LindsayInNY, babycanuck, Reese
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CHEERLEADING SQUAD
Thanks for cheering us on!
LovelyPlum, delight, ABCmrs, FutureMrsMcK, Dandelion, Adira, cmbknyc, thismustbetheplace, Mrs. 64, Smurfette, Happygal, Penny Lane, runsyellowlites, MrsTiz, Adira, Bao, HazelEyes, SweetiePie, MrsKoala, Honeygold89, dc yoga bee
Luck and baby dust!
pomelo / 5607 posts
@Alexandra603: Sorry! Still not 100% out? Hugs and fingers crossed for next month if this one is out!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@Alexandra603: I'm right with you, my spotting was a little more today stinky!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@pui: 9 ishhh......I really don't know last I went to RE on the 2nd for bloodowork because AF was a no show last month and she said my levels showed that I just had ovulated......???? So I could be 9-10 DPO!
bananas / 9899 posts
Just did an OPK and it was a stark negative, so I guess my weird long surge ended at some point the last couple of days (I stopped testing after 8 positives in a row and crosshairs).
eggplant / 11861 posts
I think Aug is the wacky month, I have a feeling after all our crazy surges, hormones, spotting ladadada we will ALL get BFP!!!!
bananas / 9899 posts
Ugh I'm starting to get my hopes up, girls. Someone please pull me down to earth.
grapefruit / 4311 posts
@pui: wooo wooo! Maybe be if we all have our hopes up this month good things will happen
GOLD / squash / 13576 posts
I POAS this afternoon, BFN. I'm pretty positive AF is around the corner. But that's cool because timing was not ideal. We are official TTC in October.
grapefruit / 4311 posts
@FaithFertility: haha I like your mindset, it's def been wacky for me
@littlek: boo! I'm not counting you out yet, but it's nice that your bot officially TTC so you don't have to be down over it too much if AF shows
@Alexandra603: blah! Sorry lady
cherry / 202 posts
@pui: I don't know if this will help you... I look at hope that if you hope for something, you have that thing while you're hoping for it. Since you're going to be disappointed even if you didn't hope for it, may as well 'have' it for a time before the disappointment. So I like to relish the hope and swim in it until my fingers get all prune-y. I know that can make the disappointment worse and that sucks. Still, if I get two weeks of happiness out of the hope, it seems worth it to me.
If that didn't help (it can seem unhelpful if you consider it logically), I offer you a *HUG* - and the reminder that you're surrounded by the comfort of a bunch of Bees who know just what you're going through!
cherry / 202 posts
@FaithFertility: I'm going to adopt that as the August mantra over here... thanks for the perspective, it made me grin!
eggplant / 11861 posts
@sweetkeight: Go for it so sweet! I'm tryjng to be positive AF is here
I'm beyond bummed, I'm out of town and suppose to go to RE on cycle day 2 for monitoring so I can start meds again I won't be able to make it
it is early, I am debating on calling Monday and seeing if going inTuesday is a big deal or what?!?!? But....... I'm a teacher and my first week back is next week
I have a mandatory training tuesday and "if" I do decide to go my RE is about 45mins away so in would have to take the morning off, also all the monitoring would fall in the first 2 weeks of school being back, I teach 1st grade......I feel soooo torn on either to suck it up and just start meds if I can get in on cycle day 3 or not go nuts and wait till next month?!?!?!?!??! Ughhhh I'm sooo confused!!!! I'm in tears over what to do...........HELP!!!!!!
cherry / 160 posts
I'm not counting myself out yet but I probably should. Google is not good for my sanity - it seems like anything could possibly be a sign of pregnancy (even spotting) so I keep holding out hope even though I'm 99 percent sure I'm not actually pregnant. What a rollercoaster of emotions this TWW is - so thankful that I have this forum.
I'm crossing my fingers for all of you!
cherry / 228 posts
Hi all - sorry to have been MIA for a few days! Congrats to all of the BFPs. So exciting!
Updates for me are a bunch of BFNs that I probably had no business taking. I spent time with a pregnant friend who went through similarly long cycles and was convinced that it's probably time to see an RE. She said that brought her a sense of control she didn't have before. So... I have an appointment on the 19th for an initial visit.
In the meantime, having some signs of ovulation (cm) so keeping up the BD just in case. DH said, "Wouldn't it be funny if we go to the consult and do bloodwork and say 'um, you're pregnant.'"
I'd take that, for sure!!
grape / 99 posts
@runnerd @pui: I love the idea of us all getting our hopes up to make good things happen. Kind of like the Care Bear Stare. Anyone, anyone? My hopes are high for everyone!
GOLD / pomegranate / 3938 posts
@MRSHONEYBEAR: care bear stare. You are awesome for referencing that.
bananas / 9899 posts
@sweetkeight: Aww that is a nice way of looking at it. I'm the type of person who always tries not to get too excited so that I can't be disappointed. Maybe I should change my attitude!
@runnerd: @MRSHONEYBEAR: Haha !! Love it. It also reminds me of when the Sailor Scouts joined hands and combined their powers! (Retro cartoons FTW!)
bananas / 9899 posts
Well today I am willing to accept that I have actually Ovulated. No temps below the coverline yet and I am on 6DPO!
bananas / 9899 posts
@FaithFertility: Sorry to hear about AF and her terrible timing!! I hope you can work out going to the RE!
bananas / 9899 posts
@Alexandra603: I won't count you as a rollover until AF arrives full force!!
@tarabonno: It can't hurt to see an RE. In my books anything that will get me an LO faster (besides kidnapping lol) is a good thing! In the meantime, BD!! I Share your DHs dream of finding out I'm pregnant while at the RE haha.
wonderful clementine / 24134 posts
@pui: joining hands/stares to give you positive thoughts!! It is wonderful news that at the end of your long ordeal you may har Od!
cherry / 228 posts
@MrsHoneyBear I am in for sure!!
@pui I am hoping harder for you than myself this month. I have a good feeling about it!!
@FaithFertility Sorry to hear about AF!
pomegranate / 3716 posts
@pui: I took a digital on Friday and it was a ... AF hasn't come yet, but I'm not holding my breath anymore
eggplant / 11861 posts
@tarabonno: Thanks I am too....lol I'm actually so ready to go back to work so I can focus on that and just not be overwhelmed with IF:(
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