I'm a first-born. I'm definitely on time and organized. And yeah, I guess I'm a little bossy My younger brother is self-centered and financially irresponsible, too!
Does this accurately describe you?
I'm a first-born. I'm definitely on time and organized. And yeah, I guess I'm a little bossy My younger brother is self-centered and financially irresponsible, too!
Does this accurately describe you?
papaya / 10343 posts
No. I'm the youngest but I fit more into the personality traits of an oldest. Although my brother is 8 years older than me and I think I've heard before that if there is more than a couple years between kids the next kid board should be a "first" again by personality.
pomegranate / 3105 posts
It doesn't sound like me at all...maybe because of the age gap between my sister and I
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
NOPE! I'm a last child and I definitely have many more of the first child qualities: high achiever, organized, on-time, responsible, adult pleaser, obeys the rules. My older brother (first born) has more of the last child qualities than I do!
ETA: Because others mentioned age gap, I thought I should mention that my brother and I are only 16 months apart, so I never felt like a "first" child!
pomelo / 5129 posts
I think the oldest one is true for my brother. But the middle one does NOT describe my sister (she is far from easy-going!) and I identify more with the traits of an only child. I've very close to my parents and sensitive.
pear / 1599 posts
Nope I am the youngest, it looks like about half could describe me in that list.
pear / 1787 posts
i have a weird family dynamic. i grew up the youngest and i think those traits totally suit me. but i'm adopted and found out i had three little sisters when i was 17. so i'm the youngest of me and my brother but the oldest of my sisters. and some of the oldest traits are very me too! so i'm a combo!
honeydew / 7091 posts
100% yes for me (first), 33% yes for DH (middle). DH is more of a first-born personality.
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
@babycanuck: Yeah, the books about birth order say that if there is a certain number of years between you and an older sibling you become a "functional first born."
pomegranate / 3383 posts
I'm the middle of 3 girls and I'd say the description is partially accurate. I don't think I'm a typical middle child though.
My younger sister resembles more of a first-born and my older sister resembles an only child. Weird!
pineapple / 12802 posts
My brother fits most of the first born characteristics.
I have characteristics from both last born & only. my brother and I are 13 years apart, so I grew up alone a lot of the time because he was already out and about doing teenager stuff. Barely home.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
First born- accurate. Baby bro- accurate too including likes to be pampered.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
I'm a youngest and I haven't been financially irresponsible in 10ish years!
pineapple / 12566 posts
I'm a first born and it describes me perfectly. My brother is not the typical 2nd child though.
pomelo / 5509 posts
I'm a middle child and I think some of it describes me well...I can be quite secretive, and I often feel that life is unfair. I also think I am pretty generous.
However, flexible, easy-going, and social..NOPE.
ETA: Hahaha, I just read the last child description and it is eerie how well it describes my younger sister. Whoa.
squash / 13208 posts
Nope - I am the last (of 4 kids) and fit the only child profile way more!
pineapple / 12802 posts
@autumnlove: me either. I have never been financially irresponsible, actually. My bro on the other hand...
grapefruit / 4066 posts
I'm the first born, but I have way more traits of the last born (besides self-centered and finacially irresponsible). Organized and On-time are the only traits of the first born I have.
apricot / 469 posts
No, like some others, I am the youngest but fit the only child profile due to the age gap. I think I read before that if the age gap is 5 years + that the birth order traits don't apply.
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
I'm the baby and definitely a creative, outgoing, risk-taker, but I'm not self-centered or financially irresponsible -- I think that has more to do with how I was raised though. I think everyone likes to be pampered, but I'm not high maintenance, if that's what that means. My husband is also the baby, but while he has a great sense of humor, the only child description definitely fits him more.
pomelo / 5228 posts
Definitely not! I'm the last, and my brother is the first. We're pretty much switched on this chart.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
Yes, both my sister and I sound like classic first and youngest children. I'm definitely a first-born!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
These have always fit my siblings and I. I'm the middle child and the epitome of it except that I'm not secretive at all.
My sister is definitely first born and my youngest brother is definitely last. However, my mom had my youngest sister with an 8 year gap between her and my brother and the birth order started over again. Her personality is more similar to a first born than last child, but she actually has elements of both somewhat equally. It's very interesting, actually.
papaya / 10473 posts
I'm first born but fit the only profile.
DH is an only but fits the first born profile!
persimmon / 1361 posts
Its funny because I am second of five kiddos and I definitely am a mix of a first-born and a middle child.
nectarine / 2641 posts
Nope. I'm a middle-child, but I definitely am much more "first child" than middle child.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Oldest describes me and only describes dh. We're pretty textbook
persimmon / 1177 posts
I'm oldest, and dh is an only child and it describes us well. But it's way off on my younger siblings.
pomegranate / 3791 posts
I'm the oldest, and I'd say yes to most but no to a few (on time? Hahaha!) But DH is also the oldest, and I don't really feel that it suits him.
eggplant / 11716 posts
I'm a middle child and I guess some of those things describe me. But DH is the youngest of two and really none of those things describe him. He's more a first or only personality.
clementine / 990 posts
Bam! This is my clan exactly! (Ie me and my siblings)
And my LO is the only child and I can see some of those traits starting in her.
hostess / papaya / 10219 posts
@Adira: I'm also a last born with most qualities of a first born. I only have a 2.5 gap with my older brother.
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