Did/Do you want a boy or girl first?
I'm happy I had a girl first!
Did/Do you want a boy or girl first?
I'm happy I had a girl first!
39 votes
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
I voted boy because I have a big brother and I love it so I always pictured havig a boy first. But I feel bad for voting that way because I think the baby in my belly is a girl!
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
With LO, I didn't care but ultimately I was glad to have a girl first!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
I have a boy so I said boy!! but I love the idea of my future DD (!!) having a big brother to protect her and be close with I love having a big brother and we were super close in high school! He watched out for me and took care of me. He was the best. I'm still close with him even though he lives far away and miss him like crazy. It was valuable having a big brother - I had a big sister too but we weren't close until we were adults.
so I love that I had a boy first.
persimmon / 1150 posts
I wanted a boy first, since I had an older brother growing up... However Lo is a girl..and couldn't imagine it any other way now.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
I'm so glad I had a girl first. I had hoped to have at least one girl, so knowing that I'd get her made me never worry about whether or not I'd ever end up with a girl!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I used to want a boy first. Now it truly doesn't matter to me. I just want to have a LO!
coconut / 8299 posts
I always wanted a boy first because I wanted the brother to look after his little sister and wanted the sister to look up to the brother. Of course that doesn't always work out that way cause a lot of siblings don't get along. But we'll see! Hopefully my son will be a good big brother to his lil sis!
hostess / watermelon / 14932 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: exactly my thoughts I'm so relieved I got a girl!
DH is 1 of 3 boys so I never thought id have a girl!
coconut / 8681 posts
I always wanted a boy first and so did DH!
When I got pregnant I did hope that I'd be the first person I'm DH's family to have a girl (the only new girls in a long time are the ones that have married into the family) but I'm glad LO is a boy anyway!
nectarine / 2127 posts
I have a big brother, DH has big sisters. I made a comment once about wanting a girl first, so our kids wouldn't fight so much (my brother, love him now but when we were kids he beat me up alllllllll the time) and he laughed in my face. Apparently his sisters beat him up when they were kids. Ahhh, sibling rivalry.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
Girl. I think lo will be more helpful and nurturing with the next since she's a girl. I have an older brother and sister and my brother pretty much ignored me but my sister was all about helping.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
I wanted a girl first and we are getting one. Can't wait till she gets here in March.
wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts
I wanted a boy first because I have an older brother, and that's what I'm getting! Now I'll just have to hope baby #2 is a girl!
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