there was really no short way to phrase this question for a title lol..

I have a 3 year old and a 10 month old. Being that I'm on my second go-round, my anxiety has WAY lessened and I definitely will get things done while they play (usually same room). I can't leave the room for a second, though, because my 3 year old is soooo intense in her love for the baby. she hugs her (chokes her..) around the neck and literally tackled her once. I struggle with addressing it because I don't want her to feel badly for being affectionate, but MAN..take it down a notch!! she genuinely just cannot keep her hands (and lips) off the baby.

I look forward to the day when my youngest can hold her own and I can blink without someone wrestling someone else to the ground