I always said I wanted 2 kids and thats what I have, but I sometimes here other say even if they just want 2 when they see a baby or a bump they have the desire to have another (even if its just for a few seconds)
I on the otherhand, have ZERO desire... its simply reinforces my "I DONT WANT ANY MORE"
Am I the only one who feels like this?
eggplant / 11824 posts
Nope, you're not the only one! 
I offer legit congrats on all those BFPs, and silent "woohoo" it's not me!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
Lol! Mine lasts literally one second before I snap out of it!
GOLD / pomelo / 5737 posts
Same as PPs! I feel like I'm the only one on HB though!!
Eta not to say I NEVER will, but the reason we aren't ttc now is... "I don't wanna." Lol.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
I'm pregnant with my 2nd and already complaining to DH that I want another and I want to be pregnant again. He thinks I'm crazy because pregnancy and my body are not friends.... but I still love it. I'm really really sad that this will probably be my last.
blogger / eggplant / 11551 posts
Nope, you are definitely not the only one!! I am sooo two and through.
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: I think if I got pregnant accidently I would cry. I know thats horrible to say but I REALLY REALLY dont want another . lets hope I never have to face that ever.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Mrs. Sunglasses: I only have one and eventually will want another but I have zero baby fever.
I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever feel like I want another one?? I know I do, but I don't want a baby...
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
@Mrs. Pen: I was thinking today that I understand why people get baby fever for #2, because darn it, babies are cute, but I'm good. The more I'm around babies and my lovely LO, the more I want just her! I'm bass-ackwards.
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21616 posts
@Bookish: are you one and done? My plan has always been three.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
@Mrs. Pen: we were on the fence, honestly. We had planned to revisit in a few years, but now I'm pretty certain I'm one and done. I'm surprised, I thought having her would make me want another!
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@Mrs. Pen: ha! i get what you mean. it was so bad but when Sienna was born all I kept wondering was when she'd walk, or when she would talk. I love having a newborn for a few hours but I need a somewhat independent child. So i get it.
GOLD / squash / 13464 posts
@Bookish: I felt that way for the first three months. I had always been crazy for babies and wanted to have three... But the first three months of my daughter's life I really didn't think I could do it again. It was so much work and I was exhausted. Plus she was so perfect I felt like I never wanted to divide my attention from her. But once she got a little older and wasn't attached to me 24 hours a day I came back around to wanting more! So never say never : )
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
@Mrs. High Heels: @Mrs. Sunglasses: easy to say when you have one of each! 
i have zero desire for a third. i would have been done after two regardless of whether we had a boy or girl!
eggplant / 11824 posts
@Bookish: I completely understand. I'm the same - babies are cute, and snuggly - - but they don't make me want to have another. I'm happy with just LO
GOLD / pomelo / 5167 posts
@Mrs. Bee: but i also think i would of been done at 2 regardless if i had 2 boys.
papaya / 10560 posts
I am having a lot of anxiety about having a second. I keep thinking "how am i going to put two babies to sleep every night by myself?" "how are we going to get a routine going" etc., etc., my head is spinning!
never thought i would say i'd be done at 2, but i think we're done at 2!
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