I am a regular poster but going anonymous because I'm a little freaked out about this situation. Just looking to how other people would react.
Yesterday, DH and I and our 2 kids were meeting up after he got out of work. He showed up late because just after I got off the phone with him to discuss the timing a guy walked up to him and asked if he had any naked pictures of his wife and his phone and if not, did he want any? WTF!?! I guess DH got away from the guy and immediately reported it to HR. DH does not usually work with this guy but had to for a little while yesterday. I guess one time the kids and I stopped into the office and he made some kind of obnoxious but ultimately benign comment to DH about me . I do not remember meeting him and although he does not live near us, I would not recognize him if I did see him around. What are your thoughts? Crazy stalker or just an obnoxious comment?
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WTF? That's so bizarre! And would make me really nervous. Hopefully HR terminated him and that will be the end of it.
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Whaaaaaat? That would seriously creep me out! Hopefully HR takes care of it and it's not a further issue.
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Can your husband ask anyone else about this co-worker to see if he is truly a creep or if he's just obnoxious with no common sense filter? Is there any reason to think he is a stalker? I hope he's just an idiot.
ETA: What did your husband say to him? He would have been fully justified to punch him in the face.
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OMG, that is so creeeeeepy. HR is a good start, but if it's true and he's stalking you....?? I don't even know what you do then? Go to the police?
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@agold: I guess there is one girl that this guy works with a lot and she has complained about him to coworkers but not formally. He was going to talk to her today to get more information. From what I could tell, DH just got up and walked away. He told me he was so shocked he didn't even know what to say.
Prior to this, DH told me about his comment when I was in the office (along the lines of how did a loser like you get a girl like her, totally obnoxious but certainly not a sign of anything) and I never heard a word about this guy since.
The only thing I can think is that I texted DH earlier in the day (maybe when he was working with the guy) with just the name of a hotel and a time. And then our phone call that he obviously listened to was just about what time we were leaving and checking the traffic. I guess that could be taken the wrong way and lead to sketchy comments?@catomd00: @NavyRN2012: HR is going to investigate but if no one else overheard it is just DH's word against this guy's. They did tell DH to report ANYTHING even if this guy just looks at him the wrong way.
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wtf??
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@LovelyPlum: I guess we would probably need more than one weird comment for the police to do something, right?
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Reaaaally creepy... Really hope HR would look into your situation and the other girls and hopefully take action.
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@flappy: Some guys just talk that way with each other re: the first comment. But the second comment about him offering to take naked pictures of you was really crossing the line. I can't imagine your husband not saying anything in either of those situations. There's a lot of easy things to say in response. A simple "listen f*cker, don't talk about my wife again or we will have a serious problem." Even if you husband isn't the type to say this kind of stuff, he can just say it and I"m sure the guy will back down. But if he's told HR now, then HR should handle it. Sorry you even have to deal with this.
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