pear / 1718 posts
@Mrs. D: weird!
@wheres_c: Imo, it's better to skip a month and make sure mama is healthy (and that you will be able to complete all necessary testing, etc.).
@marley: I don't know much about supplements (other than what I've read lately about Vit D), but hopefully your chart will start making more sense soon!
As for me, I O'd 4 days early (or, to be more precise, I got a peak reading on my CBEFM 4 days before I normally would). Maybe it's a result of the Vit D? I don't know. The tricky part is that I missed my testing window yesterday, but wasn't too worried about it because I *knew* that I wasn't due to O for another 3 or 4 days (and the CBEFM had only started prompting me to test yesterday, so, at best, I thought I might have missed a high reading, if anything). I was shocked to see a peak reading this morning! So, I took advantage of my sleepy SO this morning, and am hoping I don't actually O until later today/tomorrow.
pear / 1718 posts
December POAS Dates
coopsmama; oldpueblojenn; stratosphere; jojogirl; shootingstar; mrsdragon
Dec.02: mrsjd
Dec.03: stratosphere
Dec.05: oldpueblojenn
Dec.07: flowergarden
Dec.09: shootingstar
Dec.10: nutella
Dec.12: mrsdragon
Dec.13: narwhal
Dec.16: combatlibby
Dec.17: mrsb2012
Dec.18 babypugs
Dec21: kitkat
Dec.22: catlady
Dec.27: mrs.detour; chillybear
Dec.29: marley; pwnstar
Dec.30: mrs.d; missybear
Dec.??: lml
Cheerleaders: mrschickpea, lctbq
kiwi / 706 posts
@pwnstar: still weird. Temp was 99.39 this morning. Smiley face still flashing.
blogger / apricot / 389 posts
Well after going through more pregnancy tests than I'd like to admit this cycle, the red lady has decided to finally show up. I took this month really hard (actually harder than my CP in October). I genuinely felt like this was my month, and feel sort of stunned by the whole thing. When you feel connected to your body, and that connection is wrong, it's a big pill to swallow. Now that I have my answer (yesterday was the rough day when I had yet another negative and a sizeable dip in temp), I'm feeling better today, refreshed by a new cycle and an answer.
I think this was a valuable lesson. I have such utter respect to women that have been trying for so long, because after three cycles I am feeling the drain of it all. I have my hopes high for a little fall baby, and am thankful for the lessons about myself and my body in the meantime
Sending congratulations to all of the mamas with positives this month - sending you all of my good vibes and sticky juju!!
pear / 1718 posts
@marley: I would just keep BDing every other day (which before all of this TTC nonsense was much more fun! and spontaneous!). Hopefully, you'll get a solid smiley soon . . . the CBE website indicates that, in a study of 87 women, 66% of women had 0-4 high days, and that 25% of women had 5-9 high days . . . ? Gah. I'm sorry. The uncertainty sucks ass. (It makes me a grumpy bugger too!)
@narwhal: I just want to say that I get where you're coming from. I had an early loss in November that hit me much (much) harder than I expected. We had great timing, I felt *pregnant*, and was feeling so confident when I got that first faint BFP. And now with this cycle and Oing so early, I feel like I don't have a freaking clue what's going on, and it certainly gets the better of me from time to time.
apricot / 325 posts
I think you can take me off the list this month...CD 20 and still haven't ovulated, even with Clomid.
pear / 1718 posts
Shortening up the list a little as well!
December POAS Dates
coopsmama; oldpueblojenn; stratosphere; jojogirl; shootingstar; mrsdragon
Dec.16: combatlibby
Dec.17: mrsb2012
Dec.18 babypugs
Dec.22: catlady
Dec.27: mrs.detour; chillybear
Dec.29: marley; pwnstar
Dec.30: mrs.d; missybear
Dec.??: lml
Cheerleaders: mrschickpea, lctbq
apricot / 325 posts
@pwnstar: thanks...I have appointment 12/29 for hormone and thyroid testing so hopefully I'll have answers soon
nectarine / 2466 posts
@marley: out of curiosity, do you have a cheap pregnancy test around that you could take?
@narwhal: sorry to hear about this month for you.
@Kitkat: sorry to hear clomid hasn't done it's trick for you yet. Fingers crossed that O comes soon for you.
Nothing fun going on over here. BFN's on 9 and 10dpo. Big temp drop this morning ( but still above coverline) but feeling like AF will be here any minute. Super lame, I thought we had this month in the bag, plus cycle 2 has been our lucky cycle for both previous pregnancies. The only positive is if I get af tomorrow, that's a 2 day improvement on my luteal phase from last month... I guess that's a silver lining.
kiwi / 706 posts
@MrsB2012: haha I actually took a FRER (BFN) (I didnt' have any cheapies and didn't want to wait to order some). I was thinking that my 2-day AF wasn't AF at all, but I think it probably was. I can't but think that I overdid it with the supplements and just ruined everything.
also, sorry about the temp drop. They are awful.
persimmon / 1045 posts
@MrsB2012: sorry about the early bfn
@Kitkat: good luck for testing! I got my thyroid checked and ended up needing lowest dose meds due to being higher than 'idea ttc range' according to my OB, so hoping this makes a difference for you too.
@marley: what's happening with you? Sorry I've been MIA for a while as I'm away on holiday. Trying to let go of some of my ttc angst! Hope you're going ok!
persimmon / 1045 posts
@narwhal: sorry about AF! I had the same this cycle, as it was a few days longer than normal and had high hopes. It's so hard! But worth it in the end
kiwi / 706 posts
@Nutella: not much except I seem to be having a 10-day long low-grade fever, according to my bbt. Scroll up for my insane chart. It's only gotten more crazy.
persimmon / 1045 posts
@marley: holy Moses - are you having a fever?! This is pretty crazy. I saw that you changed thermometers, I would be puzzled too!
nectarine / 2466 posts
@marley: when did you take the FRER? Is a 2 day AF normal for you? That is so bizarre!
I'm officially out and onto the next. Super bummed. At least I can have some holiday drinks though.. I guess.
kiwi / 706 posts
@Nutella: @MrsB2012: umm so as an experiment I took my bbt just now and it showed 100.43. Then I took my temp with a normal thermometer and it showed 97.4. So I guess there's nothing wrong with me. But I'm super pissed about the bbt!!! This is my third easy@home bbt that's given me problems!! Ugh. I just bought a FOURTH on Amazon because it's the only one that will deliver tomorrow and I'm about to ovulate. My chart is all screwed up now. Should I go back and just subtract 3 degrees or something?
nectarine / 2461 posts
@narwhal: I'm sorry, hon. everyone here has felt that disappointment. hang in there, you'll get it again. xxx
@marley: that is *so* weird. hopefully it shouldn't affect your ovulation?? I'd also be totally confused/perturbed with this chart, but it has to happen sooner or later. I like @pwnstar's advice
@Kitkat: I've been wondering how you were doing, lady. sorry to hear the clomid is off to a slow start. I also went to an endocrinologist to get my thyroid checked (family history) after my first m/c... I spent $800 and all I learned was that my metabolism was pitifully slow . Anyway, I hope you get some answers soon. keep us posted
@MrsB2012: woof. I'm sorry, that is a bummer. your LP silver lining is still very good news though, even though it's not a close second
nectarine / 2461 posts
@marley: just saw your recent post! that is fucking annoying. I use this MABIS one that I got on Prime and it has never given me problems at all:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000O6YCZY?psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o09_s00
maybe you should give up on easy at home? sounds not worth it. at least you have the pee hormones telling you what's going on and you're okay!
apricot / 325 posts
@MrsB2012: @Nutella: @LCTBQE: thanks ladies
We have a trip to Europe planned for March...part of me thinks we should stop concentrating on TTC so much and just NTNP till we get back
pear / 1718 posts
December POAS Dates
coopsmama; oldpueblojenn; stratosphere; jojogirl; shootingstar
Dec.16: combatlibby
Dec.18 babypugs
Dec.22: catlady
Dec.27: mrs.detour; chillybear
Dec.29: marley; pwnstar
Dec.30: mrs.d; missybear
Dec.??: lml
Cheerleaders: mrschickpea, lctbq
pear / 1718 posts
@MrsB2012: I'm sorry. But good news on the LP front! And YAY for holiday cocktails! Which. I know. Not the same. But. ((hugs))
@marley: *grrrrr* so fucking irritating! and confusing. still have my hopes up for you though!
blogger / clementine / 985 posts
Hey all -- I am 90% sure I'm out again, thanks to some heavy bleeding, so I can be taken off the positive list. I'm probably ducking out of POAS threads for a good long while, but I'm wishing everyone lots of love and luck.
cantaloupe / 6206 posts
@MrsDragon: I hope you get some answers as to why this keeps happening.
coffee bean / 45 posts
I was supposed to POAS today, but missed FMU. Still no AF though so stay tuned!
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
Can I join? I used to be really active on HB a while back but stepped away. I am TTC #2 and just a few days from testing for my first cycle and I missed the community! I'm also tired of symptom spotting by myself. Lol
I have a 22 month old son. We actually TTC for #2 in January of this year, but my body still wasn't adjusted after weaning just one month prior (and having only 1 period after that) and I had a weird, short cycle. Also DS was being assessed for early intervention and we had a lot going on. Between me feeling like my body wasn't ready and that the timing wasn't the best, we shelved it. Now we're ready again!
Hello to everyone! I have a lot of catching up to do!
Cycle Day: 21 - 6dpo
TTC Cycle #: 1
Ovulation & POAS date: O'd December 10th. POAS on 12-20. I'll be 10dpo which is when I got my BFP with my first baby. Retest on Christmas Eve if it's negative. I'll be 14dpo.
Baby #: 2 (22 month old DS)
Your plan this month: Try and find time to BD while my son has decided he hates bed time and sleep in general. :'(
For Fun: What is your favorite winter/holiday tradition?: Decorating the Christmas tree!
nectarine / 2461 posts
@MrsDragon: I'm so very sad for you about this news I'll be thinking of you. xx
pear / 1718 posts
December POAS Dates
coopsmama; oldpueblojenn; stratosphere; jojogirl; shootingstar
Dec.16: combatlibby
Dec.18 babypugs
Dec.20: artsyfartsy
Dec.22: catlady
Dec.27: mrs.detour; chillybear
Dec.29: marley; pwnstar
Dec.30: mrs.d; missybear
Dec.??: lml
Cheerleaders: mrschickpea, lctbq
pear / 1718 posts
@artsyfartsy: welcome!
@combatlibby: Can't wait for your update! I am also impressed with your ability to wait (a no doubt excruciating!) 24 hours to test!
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