DD is 17 months old and DH hasn't really slept in our room since she was born. This all started when she was a few days old and waking constantly/nursing all night. I moved myself and DD into the living room so DH could sleep in peace. At around 8 weeks PP we moved ourselves back into the bedroom and stayed that way until sleep regression hit and never went away. DH went to sleep in the living room a few nights and eventually stopped coming to our room all together. Now a year later DD still frequently wakes to nurse and still sleeps in our room but in her own bed. I have asked DH a few times to sleep in the room but never in an overly serious manner it was more so in passing. He always just sleeps in the living room watching his tv shows. I think we have just gotten in this routine. I've asked DH to help me night wean DD a few times and he doesn't want to. He wants her to self wean. I've also tried to get him to help me transition her to sleeping in her own room and once again he didn't want to. At this point not sleeping in a bed together has greatly damaged our intimacy and sex life. We rarely have sex and when we do it's boring and routine. Please tell me it gets better? I'm not sure how to bring all of this up to him in a non threatening manner. I don't want to hurt his feelings or have him feel attacked. I'm just frustrated