He trys to cover the later evening shift till about 11 so that I can sleep through a feeding or two & be able to cover the night shift so he can sttn. This is anywhere from 2-4hours.

Problem is as soon as daddy takes over the babiesb (almost 8weeks) start freaking out. I think they can tell he is anxious & then he starts stressing out. So the babies end up crying/fussing pretty much the entire time, I sleep like crap & then when its my time to take over I have to settle two babies & deal with a cranky husband. It's almost easier to just do it myself but this is pretty much the only time I can catch a break. Ive offered to show him what works for me but he doesn't like constructive criticism. Some things he just needs to learn how to do this his own way & find what works for him but I'm losing my patience & its not good for the babies go through this night after night.

What does one do in this situation? Words of wisdom from those who have been there done that would be nice.