So I'm really freaking out right now! Let me try to make it short. So I have pcos and as you know I rarely O. I've tried Femara with no real success. After TTC for over two years I completely gave up about two months ago. No more temping, opks, or meds. I was done being disappointed. So, starting about five days ago I started feeling cramps in my uterus and thought maybe I would be starting AF soon which is a rare event for me. (I can go many months without a period) Anyway, my DH works long hours sometimes out of town. On Friday which happened to be cd30 we BD'd before he went to work. (He works nights) So, last night I was complaining about the discomfort in my uterus while talking on the phone with him and he said maybe I was ovulating. I didn't think so, but he suggested I test anyway. Well plain as day right there it was a super dark positive opk! Now here is my dilemma. This morning I felt a pinch in my right ovary which I suspect was the egg releasing and my husband won't be home until 7:30pm tonight! Today is cd32. Is it possible that I have a good chance even if I missed BD on cd31 and is BD tonight to late? I'm kicking myself for not listening to my body earlier and not BD on cd31. Last time I O'd was back in December 2014 and I'd hate myself if I totally blew my chance.
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I don't have PCOS, but the cycle where I conceived, I think we BD before I ever got a positive ovulation test, then we fought and didn't BD any more! I thought I could write that month off but sure enough, I was pregnant. I guess bodies can surprise us! Just offering some positive thoughts for you.
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Sperm can live a few days so there's a chance you could still get pregnant even if you don't BD tonight. FX
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Lots of people BD every other day during their fertile time. I think you have as good a chance as you could!
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Dh and I only BD every three days and I still got knocked up. Do what you can. There's so much beyond our control!
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@ChasingARainbow: we only bd one time and I got a bfp! Also, did you take anymore opks? Are they still positive or negative?
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@MoonMoon: thank you! That gives me hope. And congrats!
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Two days before ovulation is actually the BEST timing for conception. One day before ovulation is the second best. Look at this chart!
http://www.factsaboutpregnancy.org/what-are-the-most-fertile-days-to-get-pregnant/
Your timing couldn't have been more perfect. I hope this month is it for you!
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I conceived DD with only one BD in O-2. Anything is possible!
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I also think your timing was perfect. When I was pregnant with LO, it was a few days before I ovulated. Fx!
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My fertility clinic used to advise BD on the day before and day of ovulation. I remember once I must have ovulated overnight and couldn't BD until the next night, but we got pregnant that time! So
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I think the timing sounds pretty good!! Good luck!!
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@ChasingARainbow: We were having sex every other day when I got pregnant. Sperm can live several days, so I think you've got a good shot!
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You have a great shot for sure. My pregnancies have all been 3 days before O.
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@KatieBklyn: you all have given me hope!
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