We had a couple rough spots with some family and friends after LO1 was born. With friends it was mainly that we were in a college town and most of our friends there were pretty baby clueless. The other issue was that my parenting style is quite different than MIL's and she took that as a personal offense. Since LO is 2 now those issues have for the most part resolved. But it worries me to have to go through that again, some of it wasn't pleasant and at this point I feel like I won't have any patience for dealing with others neediness when I have a newborn and 2 yo.

Did the same issues crop up for LO2 that occurred with LO1?