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@Crumbs: did they ever carry you home? haha, mine did!

I had a few guy friends that suddenly stopped hanging out with me when I moved in with DH. I was really upset and DH said it was because they were probably hoping that I'd fall for them. I remember thinking that was ridiculous, but now a decade later, it was probably true for some of them. Oh well.

I did, he was my "bridesman". He got married to my best friend's sister in July. We're still close, although we live on opposite ends of the country.
We're considering naming him and his wife as LO's guardians if something were to happen to us....

I did and still do (since college). He spoke at our rehearsal dinner, and now he and DH work out with the same trainer and then the 3 of us go to brunch. We definitely don't go our hard like we used to right after college, but that's because we are old/in serious relationships.

Yes I did and we're still close, though we don't talk/see each other super often....like most of my college friends since we live all over the place.

Nope. I had 1 before I met DH, but that just made DH feel really uncomfortable with just me hanging out with another guy. So I still hung out with my friend but normally it would be a big group of us. We kind of lost contact through the years though.

I had a big group of guy friends when I was younger. I slowly stopped hanging out with them because I stopped partying as much, but I'm still very close with one of them and we talk often.

I also have two other close guy friends from other parts of my life (one from middle school, one from graduate school), and we talk often.

All three of them live very far away though, so we don't see each other often. But we talk pretty regularly.

I used to.. I moved away tho so I don't see him often. We used to chat all the time, even after I met DH but now that he is dating someone he has way less time.

One of my best friends (the one I talk to almost every day) is a guy, and we hang out alone all the time, both with and without DH (and both with and without LO), but I think people find it less weird since he's gay. I tell him he saves me thousands of dollars in therapy bills since I just tell him everything He's also single and not really into kids, but he has been way better than I'd ever expected about hanging out with LO. He's still a little skittish when it comes to interacting with LO directly (he won't pick him up, for example), but he'll hold all my other stuff or push the stroller or do any other LO-related task if we're out with LO together
Most of my other close guy friends are people I met through DH, so while I occasionally talk to them without DH, DH is usually around.
DH has zero jealousy issues, and so on the rare occasions I want to go hang out with a guy or guys that he's not really friends with, he doesn't mind at all and will happily watch LO while I go out.

The guy I would consider my closest guy friend still lives in the area and we keep in touch, but we don't really hang out. He recently got married too and it's just too hard to try and get together.

Yes I did and no we don't. Mainly because I'm 99.99% sure he was "interested" in me. While we were friends, I willfully ignored it because I valued our friendship too much. I guess after I got married, he gave up hope and didn't want to still hang out.