bananas / 9229 posts
Another cycle, another I'm not upset so much as just feeling over this. I stopped drinking and spinning entirely this TWW, as though that would somehow help. But no. So I get to go to the RE tomorrow and pay money for them to tell me the same thing...
eggplant / 11861 posts
@LindsayInNY: I am so very sorry! It never gets easy! Just know you did all you couls, and you will get there! ((Hugs)) and many prayers!
kiwi / 636 posts
@LindsayInNY: I'm sorry. Hopefully they'll have some explanation for you.
nectarine / 2705 posts
@LindsayInNY: Can you remind me, how many IUIs have you done now? I know it's hard to get a negative result, especially when you feel like you were extra cautious in your TWW. Don't give up on that approach! And as hard as it is, try to hold on to the feeling that you will get pregnant. Keep believing!
bananas / 9229 posts
@lazypanda: Not sure if there will ever be any explanation other than unexplained?
@sweetooth: This was our first since going to the RE in April. I usually throw myself a pity party for one day and move on. So I'm going spinning tonight and enjoying a beer. I know it'll happen eventually but the process is draining still.
nectarine / 2705 posts
@LindsayInNY: The only good thing that I cling onto with the "unexplained" diagnosis (which is what I have too) is that we don't know why it's not happening for us, but it could still happen.
The pity party is excellent. Every time my IUI didn't work, I had something wonderful planned to look forward to. I hope you enjoyed your spinning and your beer (not at the same time ) and that your next cycle is successful. Do you know if you're changing anything in your protocol?
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
@LindsayInNY: I'm so sorry. I always held onto hope that it takes 3 IUIs to get pregnant. Have your wine, cheese, soft serve, sushi and anything else your not suppose to have and then look forward to IUI #2. There are fellow HBers who got pregnant with IUIs so there is hope.
bananas / 9229 posts
@sweetooth: I go back and forth with things... Some cycles I remind myself of the chemical (one year ago this cycle) and tell myself that it's a good sign I can get pregnant? Some cycles I hate the unexplained diagnosis. There has to be SOME reason for this. Why can't it be found?! And some cycles I'm just hopeful that it will happen some day whenever the time is right. It's such a mind F sometimes.
@CupQuakeWalk: Seriously. At this point I don't even know how I'll react to a +! And will it come from POAS or the RE office??
@bluestriped bee: I can't help but think this is one cycle closer to something beyond IUI (which isn't a bad thing, just something unexpected, I guess?).
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