Before having my son, so many people told me that if others offered to cone over or help, then take them up on it and pit them to work- ask them to do some chores so I can sleep/be with my new baby.

And that's what I did and I don't regret it. Those newborn moments are so precious, all I wanted was to spend time with my husband and new baby, being together.

I had a friend offer to come help me for a week when my husband went back to work and I was so thankful. She helped with meals and chores since I was still healing and not able to do much anyway.

But she and my mom said something about me hogging MY baby. My mom told me I had to share, and my friend was upset she didn't get to hold him her first day here.

I was a little upset, wasn't I doing what everyone said?! And I don't regret only holding/feeding my baby every minute of every day, he's my baby, right??

Was there people who ever made you feel bad for your parenting decisions? Did it make you second-guess yourself, or do you know you did the right thing?