I've heard sometimes the 4-month regression is a blip on the radar and sometimes it's disastrous. My son is 4 months tomorrow. What was your experience?
I've heard sometimes the 4-month regression is a blip on the radar and sometimes it's disastrous. My son is 4 months tomorrow. What was your experience?
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pineapple / 12566 posts
With my daughter, it happened at more like 3.5 months. She went from waking only once, maybe twice a night to every 2 hours or less....for the next 11 months !
My son was a crap sleeper from day 1, so I didn't notice any difference.
pomegranate / 3127 posts
Yes, baby is nine months and the regression never ended. Though it's partly my fault for doing whatever it takes to keep her from crying and waking up everyone else. I've created some major bad habits
pomelo / 5791 posts
DS1 - didn't notice at all.
DS4 - it was horrific for a few weeks. We had to get "tough" about it to put an end to it. It wasn't fun at all.
cantaloupe / 6171 posts
It was awful! But we were also traveling right around 4 months--I don't know if it was the new surroundings or the regression that made it worse, though we also traveled around 5 months and she was just fine then
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I don't remember it with E but we co-slept full time, so if he woke up/woke me up it was just for a few seconds.
We're having a harder time with G. She's up every two hours every night, and she's starting to teeth on top of it. And her naps during the day are terrible. There are some days where she only naps for 20-30 minutes, twice a day. There is not enough coffee in the world to make me feel rested. She'll be 5 months next week.
pineapple / 12793 posts
My first skipped it. With my second I was pregnant again and had a dramatic decrease in supply and she went from sleeping through the night to eating 2-3 times over night. I'm not sure if it was the regression or hunger. as soon as we got her on solid she went back to STTN.
My third turned four months yesterday and so far so good.
persimmon / 1367 posts
Months 4-7 were awful, multiple wakeups every night. Right around month 8, she started sleeping through the night on her own.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Nothing for my first two but months 4-7 were kinda bad for LO 3. She started sleeping much better at 7 months.
apricot / 394 posts
Going through it right now, my son is 4 1/2 months. He's up 3-4x a night. We did also just transition him from the Rock N Play to the crib, so I think that's also causing all of the wake ups. I'm hoping it stops soon. Mama is tired!!
honeydew / 7235 posts
Mine was just a bad sleeper before during and after 4 months. At 7 months he's now sleeping much better!
My first had a very clear regression at 4 months that lasted a few weeks then he went back to normal!
persimmon / 1281 posts
Yes. DS has never been a good sleeper but he finally started giving us 5 hour stretches at about 3.5 months. It was a glorious two weeks We recently did some sleep training at 9 months and it's gotten much better.
pear / 1657 posts
DS went from sleeping though the night from 3-4 months old, to waking up every hour. It was horrible. I think he is the king of the sleep regression. We are now deeply in the midst of the 2 year... Yet another doozie.
persimmon / 1101 posts
Went from disastrous to catastrophic at 4 months. Hope your experience is better!
honeydew / 7463 posts
Yes, 20 months in and it's still the worst. It's actually the only one I could truly identify until 18 months.
honeydew / 7463 posts
@pachamama: It definitely happened, and his sleep patterns were drastically disturbed (night sleep only). But it ended as quickly as it started. Nothing lasting, went right back to normal.
persimmon / 1436 posts
Do t recall one with my first and if we had one with my current baby it was only 2-3 nights.
hostess / wonderful grape / 20803 posts
Yes for both. My first also entered a 6 week cat nap phase. My second had the cat nap phasetoo but it lasted 4 months
nectarine / 2436 posts
Hmm my son has only ever napped for 30 to 45 minutes. Not sure it get worse than that!
Famous last words...
eggplant / 11716 posts
With LO1: It was early, never stopped, and was terrible. She went from 1-2 wakeups a night to 6-8 which continued until we sleep trained after she was 6 months. Even after sleep training, she had 1-2 wakeups a night.
LO2: blip on the radar. Maybe 3 nights of more frequent wakeups and then back to her usual 1-2 wakeups.
nectarine / 2436 posts
@Anagram: Isn't it crazy how some babies have a clear disruption and some have nothing, even in the same family?
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