I want to sell my wedding dress, it takes up space and I don't plan on wearing it again, but DH says it something you keep, so our grandkids can try it on and that sort of thing.
Do you keep yours? Sell it with no regrets?
I want to sell my wedding dress, it takes up space and I don't plan on wearing it again, but DH says it something you keep, so our grandkids can try it on and that sort of thing.
Do you keep yours? Sell it with no regrets?
72 votes
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
I didn't sell mine. It's sitting in a box somewhere, unwashed 3 years later, probably with dried leaves still in the train. Oops.
But I didn't spend very much on it, and doubt I could get anything for it. I plan on keeping it and offering it up to a potential future DIL or granddaughter, if they want to use the lace for part of veil or anything like that.
bananas / 9229 posts
I thought about selling mine but was too lazy to post it online (and too cheap to pay to post it online!). I don't know how much I would've even been able to get for it. It was washed and has been hanging at my parents house for 3 years now...
cantaloupe / 6017 posts
My aunt made mine, and it's very simple so it rakes up no space. I'm keeping it. I figure my daughter can use it if she wants. Either way, because it's hand made, there isn't much else to do with it.
If mine was big and poofy and took up a lot of space I would be torn, it'd be nice to have as a family heirloom....but, meh. It's also just a dress. I have no idea what you should do!
clementine / 838 posts
I voted no but I donated it to an organization in Toronto that sells them and ll proceeds go to breast cancer. Best feeling!!
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
I didn't sell mine. It's a Vera Wang (one of the ones from David's Bridal) so it has a huge organza bottom and takes up a lot of space, but I just can't sell it! I actually used it as a prop for our newborn photos...we stuffed the organza bottom into a basket and wrapped DD in it (so you can't tell it's a dress, you just see the organza around her). They are some of my favorite shots from the session!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I will never sell mine! I plan to let my future LOs play dress up in it. I also want to keep it in case any future daughter or DIL would like to use a piece of it on her wedding day.
grapefruit / 4311 posts
I gave mine to goodwill, after it took space up in my closet for a year. It wasn't super expensive to begin with or I prolly would have sold it
persimmon / 1223 posts
@MrsScottish: I need to do this too! I actually bought mine from a Brides Against Breast Cancer sale and I've been thinking to donate it back! I just still need to have it cleaned!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Mine is hanging unwashed in my parents' house, next to my sister's unwashed wedding dress. I am sure C won't want to wear it for her wedding or anything like that, but she can try it on, maybe play dress up, use a piece of it for her wedding.
I'm guessing it's too late to sell it now anyway-- plus if it was stained the stains have certainly set by now!
papaya / 10560 posts
I thought about it, but can't part with it...especially since now I know I'll have DD!
coconut / 8861 posts
Still have mine at my parents house. Don't know if I'll sell it or not eventually. It's been 4 years and I still have it.
nectarine / 2600 posts
Mine is still at my parents' house. I don't think I could part with it!
pomegranate / 3706 posts
No! I couldn't sell it. I have a dream that one of my daughters might want to wear it, or repurpose it into a gown they want to wear.
pear / 1823 posts
I didn't sell mine. In fact, after I lost some weight post-partum, I tried it on! I was happy I could still fit in it
I always wanted to have a party, ala Friends, with all of my friends wearing their dresses and drinking, lol.
pear / 1812 posts
I debated selling mine, but it's a dress I've never seen on anyone else, so not sure if it would sell, or how much I'd get for it. Aaaaaand, I kinda really want to do this later on (from Pinterest). Get a pic of my daughter in it and give it to her on her wedding day.
nectarine / 2466 posts
I had mine sitting in my front closet for over a year unwashed. My wedding decorator opened a store and sells used dresses for a 60/40 split so I brought it in there. I figured if I never even looked at it for a year I wouldn't miss it. I just turned it inside out and stuffed it in a duvet cover then washed it on a gentle cycle in our machine and it came out perfect. ( I did it twice. ) After seeing that pic posted above I kind of want it back so I can do that.
bananas / 9118 posts
No, it wasn't fancy or expensive, so it's not worth selling. I have zero expectations of a future daughter wearing it, but it would be fun for dress up.
nectarine / 2936 posts
I could never get rid of mine. I'm too sentimental. We always played dress up in my mom's, so I always figured my kids would do the same. I doubt that any future kids will want to wear my whole dress, but maybe they will want to use some of the lace or something.
@NurseMommy: Such a cute idea. One of my friends did this with her daughter.
pomelo / 5607 posts
I wouldn't sell it unless you need the money until you've given it some time. You never know what you might regret getting rid of, and you can always sell it later.
I left mine at my mom's, since we moved 1100 miles away and I saw no reason to take it right away. She decided to surprise me by paying for one of those services that cleans it and preserves it and puts it in a display box. Unfortunately I wanted to do what @NurseMommy posted, so I was actually pretty upset. She paid way too much for it (and I've read some exposes on them that show how not all companies do what they claim, but since opening the box invalidates any guarantees, you can't know), and she has NO money. So now I feel like I can't open it and do what I wanted once we have kids without hurting her feelings, but I really did not want it preserved like that at all.
I think she might have been trying to keep me from doing a trash the dress thing, since I mentioned in passing once that I thought they were neat, and she absolutely refused to believe me afterwards that I had no interest in doing that.
honeydew / 7589 posts
I planned on selling it, but after the wedding I just couldn't bring myself to do it. It's a huge Vera Wang ball gown too, so it takes up so much space at my parents house.
DH jokes that he'll build me a giant glass case in my closet for it with a spotlight.
pomelo / 5257 posts
@Arden: My husband says the same thing about the glass case! I think he would actually be sad if I sold it because of the sentiment attached. But I'm way too sentimental myself to even think about selling it anyway
pineapple / 12234 posts
I did! I don't regret it either. Looking at the photos and video is far more important to me than keeping the dress.
papaya / 10343 posts
I would have sold mine if I thought I could get any money for it! However my dress wasn't that terribly expensive to start with, and it was heavily altered which would make it harder to list. Plus it really needed to be cleaned which I know could cost a couple hundred. Just didn't seem like worth the effort!
I would not sell my veil though. My mom made my veil using the fabric of her veil. I'd love if my daughter could wear my veil some day, or perhaps I could cut mine up to make hers (although I guess we can't do that for too many generations or there won't be anything left to cut haha)
pomegranate / 3858 posts
I didn't sell mine, but it's stored at my parents. I also hated it. It was made for me by a seamstress by measurements in my home city while I lived across the country. I tried it on 5 days before the wedding and it was awful. Had to have emergency alterations to make it wearable
so, I really don't care what happens. Although it was lace that I really liked...maybe I'll salvage that!
I say if you want to sell it, then sell it!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
I voted sell it!
I rented my wedding dress. So convenient!
eggplant / 11824 posts
I want to sell mine; I've just been too lazy and haven't done so yet!
My wedding dress was a very fitted mermaid, so even if LO wanted to wear it (huge IF to begin with), she would really have to be almost the same height/weight/body type I was....meh, I'd rather let someone else enjoy it!
grapefruit / 4291 posts
My dress is in my glory box just taking up space!
I gave it a pretty good hammering at our wedding but I did hand wash it and wear it again while watching William and Kate get married
I have thought about selling it but it had some major alterations to the structure of the bodice (apparently I'm lopsided!) and even washed I wouldn't feel good about selling it to another bride to wear although I have thought about donating it.
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
I didn't sell mine bc it wasn't expensive so it wouldn't be worth much.
@NurseMommy: I would love to do something like that!
clementine / 797 posts
I couldn't bear the thought of parting with mine. It's sitting in its huge preservation box in our spare bedroom.
I'm not sure it will ever be worn again but I do love the Pinterest picture that @NurseMommy: posted. I love that idea.
pomegranate / 3411 posts
i sold mine. i bought it with the intention to sell as it was out of budget and i didn't want price to limit too much my choice. i was sad to see it go, but have no regrets and was happy when i got the money for it. I also have no space for it and would have constantly feared my cats having fun with it.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Mine's still in my closet. I tried posting on WB for a hot second, no bites, so I didn't pay to post on a wedding sale website.
I'll def do a daughter in dress photo shoot if I have a dd in the future
grapefruit / 4136 posts
@mrsbookworm: my girlfriends and I are planning a party like that!!!
Mine is in the closet, unwashed 3 years later but I can't part with it.
wonderful pear / 26210 posts
Mine is a lace sheath, so it takes up no space. I will eventually frame it.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
@mrsjyw: Ditto! I'm not sentimentally attached to my dress so I posted it on a few sites, but no bites. I'm also short so that may be a factor.
Mine also hasn't been cleaned yet and it's year 3 and counting.... Oops!
nectarine / 2932 posts
I could never sell mine. Not even because of the emotional wedding aspect of it, but because my dad bought it for me and he died unexpectedly 5 months before the wedding. It's the last thing he purchased me and I would never be able to sell it.
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