cantaloupe / 6669 posts
We aren't sharing for this reason, and also because I think it will be a fun surprise for everyone since we will already know the sex ahead of time.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
We kept the name we picked out a secret till she got here.
bananas / 9227 posts
We kept it the list to ourselves and even after chose a name, we still didn't announce it. I really didn't want to hear any negative/annoying comments and sometimes ppl around us just don't think before speaking.
They all loved her name and even raved about it, but that was when the deal was done and she was already born
cherry / 178 posts
The first name we considered got ridiculed (mostly by my family)! But the second name we agreed on (which we ended up sticking with), we shared with everyone and my ILs totally claimed that it was their idea. They can be so annoying. I just try to think that they're going senile (they're not) so that I don't let it get to me.
watermelon / 14467 posts
We shared, but I'm not anymore except for HB. When we shared our girl name, my mom and her friend said they hoped it was a boy because they don't like our girl name. Also something about naming 'their' baby something weird. Everyone in their vicinity loved it, so now she's back pedaling and saying its wonderful.
nectarine / 2631 posts
We mentioned a few and got some serious negative comments- so when we were stuck between 2 names, we kept them a secret and decided when LO arrived. Then we got to introduce him to it families with his name and it was pretty emotional.
apricot / 468 posts
We didn't share any names AT ALL. We kept LO's name a secret until he was born...even our parents didn't know.
grapefruit / 4862 posts
LOVE this question!!!!
We just found out the sex of the baby but we're keeping it a secret for 2 months to share with family in person at our showers. We're not telling family any of the names we like right now, but probably won't. They know the middle names we like for boys and girls (family names... and MIL is REALLY PISSED we like her ex husband's name for a boy's middle... sorry woman it's my grandpa's name too!)
Anyway, we have told some of our close friends who won't go to our showers the gender. IE, my husband's work friends, and my closest internet friends (LOL... not kidding.) We have told a few of them names we like, but we also know they're not judgey. They've even given great suggestions! If we tell any family/friends names after we reveal gender, we'll be picky about who we share with. I think that's the smartest part... to KNOW who you're sharing with! If your mom will badger you and tell you her HONEST thoughts, then maybe don't tell her, etc!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
We've shared our list of potential names with friends and family. A majority have been eh about the hubby's top choice and have chosen another name on our list as their top contendor. However, ultimately, whatever name we choose will be the name, regardless if friends and family like it or not.
grapefruit / 4823 posts
With DS we told everyone once we were 100% set. We knew that it was his name and nothing anyone said was going to change it. With DD, we've decided that we aren't sharing any names because we can't decide between our top 2 and are waiting until she gets here. We don't want anyone to try and sway is one way or the other
honeydew / 7917 posts
We shared the names we were considering with DS, and I hated hearing the responses. People would say, "Oh I know a _____, and I didn't get along with him in elementary school." Some would say, "I like this name better than the other name." If they didn't have a positive comment, I just didn't want to hear it.
With our next LO, I want to keep the name a secret. DH is having a hard time with that and already telling people our choice for a girl's name, even though I'm only 13 weeks along.
| Member | Posts |
|---|---|
| Chuckles | 1 |
| poppygirl15 | 1 |
| catgirl | 1 |
| bees_knees | 1 |
| superkate | 1 |
| blairkiday | 1 |
| Today | Monthly Record | |
|---|---|---|
| Topics | 0 | 1 |
| Posts | 1 | 0 |
Ask for Help
Make a Suggestion
Frequently Asked Questions
Bee Levels
Acronyms
Most Viewed Posts
Hellobee Gold
Hellobee Recipes
Hellobee Features
Hellobee Contests
Baby-led Weaning
Bento Boxes
Breastfeeding
Newborn Essentials
Parties
Postpartum Care Essentials
Sensory Play Activities
Sleep Training
Starting Solids Gear
Transitioning to Toddler Bed
All Series
Who We Are
About the Bloggers
About the Hostesses
Contributing Bloggers
Apply to Blog
Apply to Hostess
Submit a Guest Blog
Hellobee Buttons
How We Make Money
Community Policies
- Google Plus
- Stumbleupon
- Twitter
- Facebook
- Pinterest
- Favorite0
50 comments