Did you alert people when labor was starting? When you went to the hospital? Did it matter what time it was?

aside from BIL who babysat our toddler, we didn't tell anyone I was in labor. It was 8 pm before I even thought it really was labor and by the time we were heading to the hospital it was ten pm and I figured why ruin everyone's good night sleep? We live far enough from family that there was no way they would come and wait around in the hospital (and I wouldn't want them to anyway).

We ended up texting everyone the next morning, almost 8 hours after she was born. By that point I figured why risk waking people- plus we hadn't picked her name. My mom thought it was weird I hadn't alerted them earlier (not mad though).