My parents did not so I want to step it up a notch for my kids!
My parents did not so I want to step it up a notch for my kids!
bananas / 9899 posts
Oh man yes. It started on December 1st when my mom would replace our pillow cases with special christmas ones (they were just christmas patterns on them). Then we would do all the decorating together. I used to love picking out a tree and decorating it with my family.
On christmas morning they would cover the top of the stairs with newspaper, so we couldn't see downstairs. When we were finally allowed to burst through, they would have set up one or 2 of the "big" toys under the tree.
Can't wait until DD is bigger so I can do this stuff for her!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
I think so! I looked forward to holidays with them and have even carried on some of their traditions into ours now.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
Christmas was always special, but simple. We baked cookies, kept the tree lights on all night for a twinkling Christmas morning, and one coveted gift was always hidden in the house for a suspenseful hot & cold game.
grapefruit / 4988 posts
Yes, we had lots of fun traditions through the whole month of December and my parents really went over the top with presents. I loved it growing up, but looking back, I feel like my brother and I were pretty spoiled! DH and I want to be more low-key for our own holidays but we're kind of worried that our families won't react well to that.
grapefruit / 4817 posts
My family's have always been fairly simple. They were special in the fact that everyone got together, but we have no real traditions. My mom made biscuits and gravy and a candy cane pastry most years, but even that wasn't a given. But no one in my family is Chistmas crazy. I still care very little for the holiday.
My husband's mother went all out every year and had a ton of traditions. Yet my husband is pretty meh about the holiday, as well. Our Christmases are simple.
pomelo / 5720 posts
Yes. My mom went crazy (still does!) for holidays and birthdays. My birthday is a few days before Christmas and she always made me feel like it was special and kept it separate from any of the Christmas festivities. I don't find myself going quite as overboard with the presents as she did, but I do love the traditions we had and am planning to incorporate many of them with our children.
honeydew / 7622 posts
Not really. I'm still deciding how Christmas will go once the baby arrives next year. I like the idea of having traditions throughout the month rather than tons packed into one day.
apricot / 251 posts
We have several days of big parties and special food. I loved it as a child, hated it as a teen, and now love it as an adult. DH's family does nothing for holidays and he's become even more into my family's celebrations that I am. Last year, he planned a cocktail menu with my mom for almost a month.
pomelo / 5791 posts
Oh loooooord yes. The thing is, at some point, they had to start scaling it back as we got older and things got more expensive. Then my brother and I were like "WTH? This isn't so great anymore". And it became really disappointing for awhile. We got over it though!
blogger / pomegranate / 3201 posts
My mom worked a lot when I was little, often on major holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas. I hated that, but she still tried to make things special. I have always loved the holidays, so I make a big deal out of it all. Luckily, my husband loves it, too.
honeydew / 7917 posts
Holidays were rarely celebrated in my family. I want my kids to experience them to the fullest.
cantaloupe / 6164 posts
Yes! My mom is still crazy with holidays. I hope I can do the same for Sadie.
GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts
Nope. I celebrate them with my LOs, but nothing OTT.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
@Andrea: I think just acknowledging holidays is OTT for my parents!
apricot / 370 posts
nope, but my husband's family did/does. we did have a large extended family, so we would have big get togethers around the holidays, but we didn't do any gifts, decorating, singing christmas songs, etc.
clementine / 812 posts
Yes! Christmas was lots of cookie baking, decorated the tree together, went for rides to see Christmas lights, had a special "appetizer" night after Christmas Eve mass. We had a plastic nativity scene we were allowed to play with.
On Easter we got a basket with little treats and then a slip of paper that led us on a scavenger hunt--at the end we found a little bit bigger gift.
New Years Eve meant special treats including pop! My mom would also buy those plastic champagne glasses for us to drink out of.
hostess / cantaloupe / 6486 posts
Oh yeah. Holidays (especially Christmas. Christmas movies & music was a year round thing at our house) & birthdays were always treated so special & I plan to do the same.
cantaloupe / 6885 posts
Yes - my mother put on the most amazing halloween spooky suppers, heart-shaped pizza for valentines days, legendary Easter egg hunts, and the most out of this world Christmas season
persimmon / 1322 posts
Yes, they always made the extra effort to make it special. Looking back, what made it the most special was that the traditions they started were creative and well suited to our family. Picking out an decorating a christmas tree all together, hiding easter baskets on easter morning, using half-birthdays as an excuse to make a yummy dessert, cheese fondue on Christmas eve, staying up late playing card games and drinking sparkling apple cider out of nice glasses on new years eve. Some of their traditions I've already started carrying on in my own family, and I've definitely been inspired to find my own ways to make the holidays special for my own kids.
pomelo / 5041 posts
My mom always went way out for Christmas which I absolutely loved. Now that I have my own family we do many of the same events and traditions. Christmas is probably my favorite time of the year!
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts
Yes and no... I'd say I was happy and don't feel ripped off. There are definitely a lot of holidays we just didn't care about and I actually want to raise LO the same way. Some holidays are important and worth celebrating (for the right reasons), and some I probably will not get her into as much.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Yes, my mom made them so special. I hope I can do half of what she did for us for our daughter!!
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