my toddler was 2 years 4 months and did REALLY well, actually. the tough part has been the last few weeks - my infant is 2 months old now.

my toddler has been competing for attention in a big way - shrieking when the baby is asleep and watching me for a reaction (how do you not react to that??), fake crying and whining, totally regressing in her wubbanub attachment.

the last week she's been better because I have been vocalizing to both of them (even if the baby can't understand me. "C, one minute, I'm helping your big sister with her shoes!" or something like that. We signed up for a couple toddler classes (gym and music). I'm also moving big sister from her space saving high chair to a big girl booster, and we're looking into a FF harness to booster to give the baby her RF/FF convertible seat.

hoping little things like that will help her feel like a big girl!