I honestly think it won't even occur to DH this year while I'm still pregnant... I'm ok with that. I came home to him looking for something for my mom and it made me happy! So he's off the hook this year.
I honestly think it won't even occur to DH this year while I'm still pregnant... I'm ok with that. I came home to him looking for something for my mom and it made me happy! So he's off the hook this year.
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
DH got me a card last year written out "to the mother of my unborn child". And flowers.
That's really sweet about your DH looking for something for your mom. I'm not sure it would even occur to mine to wish my mother a Happy Mother's Day, even though I get a card for his mom. He likes my mom and all but I just don't think it's something that would occur to him to do!
cherry / 168 posts
I'm going to guess probably not. I will only be 5 weeks along. We were hoping to surprise our moms and grandma with the news but we're thinking it's still too early. So we'll see.
nectarine / 2163 posts
Ha. I doubt I'll even get anything this year, and lo is 9 months old
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6581 posts
No, we discussed it and DH thought we should wait until the baby was here to start celebrating mother's/father's day. I'm pretty sure my mom and/or MIL will send me a card though
grapefruit / 4819 posts
No, he didn't and I was so upset. I only wanted a card, that's it. No flowers, no candy, no gifts, nothing, just a card. I was 35 weeks pregnant and thought for sure he would do something...but no. He didn't even wish me a happy Mother's Day and was so surprised when I burst into tears at lunchtime when it was clear he was not yet thinking of me as a mother. Poor guy, he had no idea what it meant to me. Then again, I think pregnancy hormones were kicking in big time and probably blew my reaction a tiny bit out of proportion.
GOLD / wonderful grape / 20289 posts
He did, but I didn't really want it. The first time I was pregnant I got DH a father's day gift (probably how he figured out that I wanted a gift) and then I miscarried. So the next time I got pregnant mother's day was in my first trimester and I didn't want anything, I felt like it would jinx it. He did good though, he got me a couple of outfits for LO that were perfect.
honeydew / 7968 posts
He got me a charm bracelet... And then I lost the baby. So I didn't wear it until I had my twin babies. With the twins, I got pregnant after Mother's Day.
hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts
Yup. He got me a beautiful blown-glass necklace I was drooling over at a craft fair.
I also got cards from him, my Mom, MIL and SIL.
cantaloupe / 6730 posts
I doubt it, but that's ok with me. I'm of the opinion that mother's day is to honour your mother, and I'm not his mother. I certainly hope he helps our LO get/make me something when he/she is here though!
papaya / 10473 posts
@Grace: That's what I'm hoping for too I always loved scheming up something for Mothers Day with my dad and sister for my mom when we were little girls!
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
I highly doubt it since I'm pregnant. I'd love it if he made a small gesture towards it though. Just a sweet text or something since we'll be apart that day.
GOLD / cantaloupe / 6703 posts
He didn't last year, but that's okay. I did get a sweet card from some friends though.
cantaloupe / 6800 posts
I doubt it, @Alivoo01: like you I would be happy with just a "Happy Mothers day!" lol
pomelo / 5041 posts
My dh already told me he wants to do something for me for Mother's Day even though I told him it wasn't necessary. Last year my mom gave out Mother's Day cards and gave one to my pregnant sil so I will likely get one from her this year too. In my family we celebrate all pregnant mothers on Mother's Day.
honeydew / 7586 posts
I doubt it. Although, last year I got choc covered strawberries and a card from the dogs so maybe he will surprise me!
clementine / 818 posts
Probably not, he just told me yesterday that this was my last mothers day not being a mother, so I don't think it would even occur to him.... I would like a card though, but its okay if it doesn't happen.
eggplant / 11287 posts
I got induced on mother's day and I didn't get anything, not even a card!
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