Hello, I am on an anon account right now because I am not ready to be public about this. If anyone wants to verify me, please let me know and I will be happy to do so. I've been a member here for almost 8 years.

I need to talk to someone who has recently divorced or is separated. Long story short, but my husband and I are going to divorce, but I don't even know what steps to take to get this going and to get it done. I read last night about a legal separation and that seems like the best route, but I am honestly feeling pretty overwhelmed and lost. If anyone on here could give me some advice on what to do, I would be incredibly appreciative.