...where your marital status is different?
Sometimes in vivid dreams I'll be single and panicking because I'm getting older and still not married or attached. I'll start thinking through how to meet guys, and even sometimes start flirting with or dating guys, then all of a sudden I'll stop and be like "wait! I AM married!! CRAP!!!" then I'll realize it's a dream. I wake up all disoriented!!
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
I've had sexy dreams about male coworkers of mine (GAH!). I HATE those dreams because they make work the next morning really awkward. The only upside to these dreams is that in my dream, I'm not married. Phew.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
I have dreams all the time where I fall in love with other men (quite often it's Lee Min Ho. He's my celebrity crush) and can't escape this nagging feeling that I'm forgetting some thing. Then I remember I'm married and I stress out because I have to choose!
I have this dream like...crazy often.
pomelo / 5509 posts
I frequently have dreams where I actually ended up with one of my exes. I hate them! I had one last night where for some reason DH and I weren't together so I went back to an ex and mentally acknowledged I'd just have to settle for him. Ugh.
honeydew / 7091 posts
Haha! I have had some crazy dreams, but none like that. When DD was first born I would have crazy dreams where I was SO mad at DH and we would be screaming at each other, and I would wake up in the middle of it and my heart was beating SO fast, like we really were fighting! It's so weird, because we never fight like that, and I'm rarely mad at him, let alone screaming-mad at him.
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
@IRunForFun: I dreamt about my ex the other night too. Evenin my dream though I eventually came to my senses. My subconscious even knows that was a bad time in my life!
honeydew / 7091 posts
@Rubies: Oh, I have some dreams like that (before I was married), and I wasn't able to look at them for weeks! Haha
cantaloupe / 6171 posts
this is SO random, but I had a dream last summer (must have been after I was binge-watching the last season of the Bachelorette) that I was on a Bachelor/Bachelorette style show, except it was more like speed dating (which I've never done, only seen in movies!). I was supposed to be deciding whether I liked Juan Pablo (the next Bachelor) but since I was like "hmm I like dh better..." I was more concerned that I had somehow missed my vegetarian meal at dinner, so I was trying to get Chris Harrison to get it for me, lol!
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
I have dreams where I'm single and with random guys!
pomelo / 5509 posts
@Danizaur: Haha. In my dream last night I was texting DH saying, "I miss you, where are you?" and totally couldn't figure out why we weren't together and why I had to be with this other person. It was so unsettling!
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
@IRunForFun: It really is unsettling! It all comes flooding back like, "Wait...I love this person! OMG what did I do?"
grapefruit / 4213 posts
DH just had a dream a few days ago that I divorced him, got full custody of our baby, and moved across the country. He said he woke up all upset in the middle of the night and saw me next to him sleeping (in all my 9 month pregnancy glory, I'm sure) and fell back asleep... into the same stressful dream!! Poor guy!
wonderful grape / 20453 posts
I had a dream I was single and dating Dh awhile ago. It was so bizarre. But, you know, like a typical dream, everything was really weird and out there
watermelon / 14206 posts
Yeah, I have dreams where I seem have to forgotten that I'm married to DH. Sometimes in the dreams, I remember that I'm married, but not exactly who I'm married to.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22276 posts
I have dreams where I am single and get depressed because I am not married yet and I also have dreams where I am with other guys lol...thank goodness they are just dreams!
cherry / 149 posts
I used to dream I was back with my ex, and I would always end up breaking up with him again by the end of it because he was really irritating.
Sometimes I dream I'm in love with somebody else, and then that messes me up for the whole next day, even when it's a fictional dream person.
papaya / 10570 posts
I have dreams where I know Im with someone Im crazy about but I can't remember who he is! Im often with an ex, who was abusive, in these dreams and Im furious with myself for letting him back into my life - then I think no, I didn't end up with him but try as I might I can't call DH to mind. Its quite distressing.
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
I just had a sexy dream about an ex...SO awkward, I woke up thinking I cheated on DH! I didn't feel right for a few days.
cantaloupe / 6687 posts
Last month I had the MOST vivid dream that my husband was leaving me for his intern (he doesn't have an intern in real life). He was explaining to me his entire thought process and I could not believe that he was weighing the pros and cons and decided to leave me for her. I was soooo pissed in my dream. It was this long dragged out dream that I could not wake up from and it was driving me crazy.
I woke up finally and went to the bathroom and I was SOOOO pissed off and upset. My husband usually sleeps through my middle of the night bathroom trips, but he woke up a little and saw me and said "hi cutie" and I was like "I had the WORST dream ever!" and I started bawling my eyes out and hyperventilating and he's like "what happened?!?" thinking I had a bad dream about LO.
I was pissed at him the entire weekend even though he didn't do anything wrong.
persimmon / 1230 posts
@irunforfun: I sometimes have dreams that I ended up with my ex (who actually cheated on me - hence, he is my ex). I HATE those dreams! I am always so relieved to wake up and see my husband sleeping there next to me.
persimmon / 1198 posts
@sandy: I totally had a similar dream a few nights ago! I was really upset about it for a while...like a few days. I was more depressed about it than angry, but then again I was really, really depressed in my dream...I guess I didn't get to the angry part?
During that same dream I dreamed that the Ergo we just bought at 50% off was sent to us in the wrong color....and a few days later it showed up and was the wrong color! It was a different color than the one in my dream, but still totally freaky!
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