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Did you used to co-sleep?

I never wake up thinking Xander's in bed with me, but we also never co-slept, so maybe that's why?

Ha. It's the reverse for me. I wake up thinking she's in her room and then I turn over and Boom, a little face in my face.

When she was a newborn either my husband or I would wake up at least once a night thinking I fell asleep breastfeeding and she was in the bed. We didn't co sleep at all because I didn't trust myself when she was that small. Now, it will still happen occasionally, maybe once a week? We went through a faze where we would let her sleep in our bed if she got up after about 4am so I think that's why? Just last night I thought she was in the bed and I jumped out and threw everything off the bed looking for her hahaha.

I dreamt last night that I had to go get DD up and instead of curling up on the couch with her, I had brought her to bed with me. Which is weird because I never bring her to bed with me in the middle of the night because hubs doesn't co-sleep. And we haven't co-slept in at least a year!

When LO was newborn DH was always waking up thinking his pillow was the baby and freaking out! We never co slept at that stage, although I did bring him in the bed to feed right at the start.

No, we never co-bedded though. Now I usually rollover and find a little leg kicking me because she ended up in our bed

We never co-slept, but I had what I used to call "phantom baby" syndrome. When I was nursing, especially in those early cluster feeding days, I felt like our son was always close by. So when I would have a moment to sleep in our bed alone, whenever my husband woke me to feed our son again, he had to convince me that I wasn't already holding our son.