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We will be done with two.

I think we will be done after this one but there are some moments where I'm like "if we had 3..."

We still discuss it, but I know that we are done. I guess it's just fun to talk about "what ifs" sometimes!

Definitely. I swing between wanting another and being one-and-done several times a day! Then some days I imagine the three children family I always wanted and I think for a fleeting moment that it would be so lovely.....

Never. It has always been just 2.

Yup. We've always wanted 3 but now that we have 2 we're not 100% sure.

I go back and forth between wanting 2 and 3. I can imagine having 3, but I think it will all depend on what kind of toddlers/pre-schoolers LO's 1 & 2 turn out to be as to whether we can handle another in the mix!

Always! We don't have room for more kids...and are def happy with our two. But all the time I think about if we had a 3rd/4th...

Totally undecided between 1 and 2. Sometimes I even dream about having 3 even though logistically that's not what I want.

We did for a couple years. Two was so much more logical than 3! But something in my soul wouldn't rest... And now we know in the clearest way possible that 3 was meant to be.

I think it is important to listen to that quiet voice deep in your soul and maintain open conversation between partners to know the right family size for your family.

I am now completely at peace with the size of our family.

Our first is only 7 weeks old, but we always talk about having 4 because that's our ideal. However, I think we both know it probably won't work out logistically/financially...so, kind of? I think we'll start having real conversations about what to do once we are pregnant with/have #2.

We waivered between one and two for a while but are now on the same page with wanting two.

All the time! We thought we wanted three, and we sometimes still do, but we're in such a good place with two, we're not sure we want to rock the boat again by going for number three. Regardless of what we decide though, we are set in our decision to not even discuss #3 seriously until DD2 is around 2, so still another year away...

Some days it seems like a great idea, other days I think we'd be nuts to have a third!

Yes, we waver between wanting another and being one and done, although I'm pretty sure both of us believe that we will eventually end up with two.

Sometimes.

I've always said 3-4, but leaned more toward 4. DH is more comfortable with 3 but is open to 4. Right now, with LO1 at 23 months and LO2 at 6 weeks, I think I might be insane to want to do this again once, let alone twice. But that is the sleep deprivation talking - I know our family isn't complete yet. I just need at least a year of good sleep after this to recover!

I originally wanted 3 or 4, but it's taken us 2 years so far to conceive #1, and we're trying IVF now. So now that this is the journey we're taking, we're just so focused on having one for now and we'll see how we're feeling after that.

i am pretty dead set on 2.....i only waver when i think that LO#2 could be a boy and then i would have 2 boys and i really want a girl. I wonder if if i would consider a third.