Do you usually go to bed at the same time as your SO?
We always go to sleep at the same time when we are both home. I want to sleep earlier but I also want qt after bedtime to talk and watch shows together.
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nope - I usually go to bed at 9:30 and DH stays up working most of the night
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No. DH stays up later to make sure that LO #1 is asleep and play a game. I go to bed early to wake up early to catch the train or do mornings with the kids.
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Most of the time. Sometimes he goes to the gym and I am falling asleep in bed by the time he gets home. Or we will both get in bed and he stays up to watch one more show after I fall asleep.
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More or less, but some days I'm def more tired and go to bed maybe half hour to an hour before him.
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Nope! I am in bed by 9:30 and DH could stay up until 1am....
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It totally depends on the day! Sometimes we do, sometimes he stays up later playing video games, sometimes I stay up later reading. It's a crapshoot!
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Yes, most nights.
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Yes, it's kind of an unwritten rule! (not rule but habit?). I actually place ridiculous importance on it, as my parents who are about to celebrate their 50th Wedding Anniversary always did and still do it so I think it's a good thing to wind down together! But we have similar schedules so that makes it easier for us too.
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Usually.
I'm going to bed a bit earlier now though because DD3 likes to sleep with a boob in her mouth. -
Every single night of our marriage so far.
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Nope, hardly ever. I am asleep an hour or so before he comes to bed.
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Yes, we always get into bed at the same time, and watch tv together.
He usually tries (emphasis on try) to stay up until I fall asleep, because he snores horribly, which keeps me up.
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Sort of? We get in bed at the same time generally, but he'll almost always read or watch stuff on his phone for awhile after I fall asleep.
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No. I get up 1.5 hours before he does, so I usually go to bed at least an hour earlier than him. I miss going to bed at the same time though.
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Occasionally, but not often. We work different shifts, so he goes to bed later a lot of the time. It works out nicely because I leave G asleep in a RnP in the living room with him and go up to bed. He usually changes her and brings her upstairs to me when she wakes up (around 1-2am) and goes to be then.
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I always want to, but my husband likes to relax longer and go to bed later.
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A lot more often than we used it. I wish we did it every night, but I'm an early bird and he's a night owl, so it doesn't really work out well for either of us to do it at the same time every night.
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We try because he takes forever to get ready for bed and makes a racket, so I just get annoyed if I get woken up. That, and I generally just sleep sounder when DH is in bed with me.
But just lately its been harder because DH has been working in his office so late. I generally wait up until about 11pm and then go to bed because I'm pregnant and exhausted.
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Never. He works nights and often isn't home until long after I've gone to bed.
I also wake up early and am at work before 8am, so I can't really "wait up for him" either. -
Yes we do except when I was pregnant and going to bed super early.
Every once in a while he wants to stay up and watch something but in general it is pretty important to me to go to bed together. Plus we get up pretty much the same time (and him usually earlier than me) so he has no need to stay up later!
@Aimed121: agreed! We are lucky that our schedules line up but in general I just like ending our day together.
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