I have several! I have childhood friends and coworkers who are happily in the "Dual Income No Kids" camp. While I was afraid that having DS would change our relationship, it hasn't! They love my kid, just don't want one of their own!!
I have several! I have childhood friends and coworkers who are happily in the "Dual Income No Kids" camp. While I was afraid that having DS would change our relationship, it hasn't! They love my kid, just don't want one of their own!!
papaya / 10343 posts
Do you qualify as a DINK if you plan to have friends some time in the future? If so, most of my friends are. And we are right now as well (for another 31 odd weeks or so haha).
blogger / pineapple / 12381 posts
Most of my childless by choice friends are gay couples.
persimmon / 1081 posts
Only a few, maybe 2-3 couples. Most of our friends are married with 1-2 kids.
GOLD / wonderful coconut / 33402 posts
One couple and I don't think that will end up having kids. It is still on the table.
Then another couple, gay guys, that won't have kids.
Both people in both relationships do VERY well for themselves too.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Several- though many will have kids in the future, just waiting a but longer.
wonderful pea / 17279 posts
Not anymore. One couple has a baby now and another is divorced.
grapefruit / 4800 posts
We have several. But it's pretty common in our fields to wait till later to have kids so I'm not sure if they plan on having kids or not. Only one couple has said they don't really want kids (though the husband does, we'll see how that goes). But the wife really likes their lifestyle so she's vetoed the idea. Kids haven't really changed our friendship though.
papaya / 10343 posts
@Mrs. Jump Rope: LOL! yes. I swear to God I am so tired today it's amazing I'm still (sorta) upright. Considering bed at 7:42. Forgive me
nectarine / 2220 posts
Yep lots if you count people who intend to have kids in the future. We're the first in our circle to have a baby, even though DH and I are 34/30 respectively. We had/have a pretty nice circle of other DINKS that we spent time with.
It's only been 8 weeks since our daughter was born, but I would suspect those relationships will change a little bit. One of my friends came to visit the other day, and she was having a birthday party that she invited me to on facebook. She's like.... I literally hovered over your name for 5 minutes before adding you to the invite list considering it's at 9pm in a bar in the downtown core of the major city 45 minutes from our suburb. I told her I certainly appreciated the invite, and am really happy when people still think to include me because it's nice to have the option! But unfortunately I had to decline...
I kind of assume some of the more peripheral "friend of a friend that I see out and about" will fall away. But I'm actively recruiting my friends to have babies too
cantaloupe / 6692 posts
About half And half? Most of my friends are already married...I'd say half of them have kids.
hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts
Some but we actually fall into this category. Some of my friends know we have IF but some don't. For a while, we saved our money for upcoming pregnancy. Now, we are trying to enjoy it. Gotta make the best out of our IF journey.
I do know 3 DINKs that secretly have IF. Beginning to see how common IF is.
nectarine / 2932 posts
We are currently DINKS, but trying to remedy that with TTC! We actually have several couples that are and plan to stay DINK and never want kids.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
I have married without kids friends, but they're TTC!
pomegranate / 3113 posts
We were (are?) the DINKs...when LO arrives, our friends will all either be married with kids or single and living it up. I'll probably miss being able to easily slide between the two groups.
blogger / watermelon / 14218 posts
Quite a few! I think most are planning on having children in the future.
clementine / 933 posts
We are! Of my closest friends, two are married mommas, four are DINKS, one is engaged, one is in a serious relationship, and two are single.
pineapple / 12234 posts
Most of my friends who are married are still in their twenties and waiting 5+ years to even consider having kids. I don't know anyone who has ruled it out completely.
coconut / 8681 posts
Nope, none. All of our friends who are married have either started having kids in the past 3 years or are currently expecting!
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