I have been back to work for three weeks or so now and I am still so surprised when men hit on me or comment on my appearance. After having a baby I feel like I have TOTALLY lost my mojo.
Did you feel less attractive after having your LO?
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haha yes, i totally feel less attractive. i don't really get hit on, so nothing's changed in that department.
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Lol sometimes in my car I'll get looks and stuff but then my bump will show and they'll totally change their looks of admiration to horror.
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I feel like I don't bother to dress as nicely, esp since I WAH so that probably brings my confidence down a notch. I think that African American and Hispanic guys will never stop hitting on me, though. They like curves!
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@Andrea: hahaha! I was told today that I look better after having a baby since my butt is so much bigger! LOL
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@Mrsdaredevil: haha. more to grab onto! WOOHOO!
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@TurtleDoves: back when I was pregnant and people would hit on me in the car I would always think to myself "you have soooooo idea what I got going on down here....if you only knew!!!"
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@Mrsdaredevil: exactly. Same thing when I'm pushing the shopping cart. When I turn the corner and I'm all bump I'm pretty sure they cringe a little...
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I got a husband after I had DS! hehe.....
As for now, I stay pretty much in my own, don't talk to me bubble, flashing my ring as much as I can when I'm out and about so no I haven't really gotten hit on since getting married to DH BUT he says he still sees guys check me out since having DD sometimes. lol
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@TurtleDoves: haha I remember guys yelling out their window at me at stop lights when I was 7 months pregnant. It felt so wrong. What is worse is when someone asked me for my number when I was 9 months pregnant with my first. It was at the mall. Sicko.
I find older men hitting on me or staring me down these days. It's so uncomfortable. And really weird when I'm pushing my double stroller. Extra really weird because I'm not what I use to be and haven't lost all the "mush" from pregnancy.
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Every time I'm out, I'm with LO so no, I haven't gotten hit on
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yup! it's crazy. i think it's a confidence thing. Or maybe maturity. who knows.
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