My LO does not like the swaddle, but if we don't swaddle her she wakes every hour. I have always swaddled her before nursing her at bedtime, but she gets distracted while nursing because she's frustrated that she's swaddled and tries to get out of it. Eventually she gives up, continue nursing, and falls asleep.

I am wondering if it would be better to nurse her first then swaddle? But I am worried that the swaddle will wake her up and she will be pissed then it will take even longer to get her down.

What has worked best for you? Has anyone done both and found that one method was better than the other?