My dad doesn't but my mom can stay mad forever!
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My stepmom does, for sure. She's still openly bitter over something that happened with my step-SIL 13 years ago (even though it was totally her fault--she also refuses to accept responsibility for anything).
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My mom is the queen of the grudge holders... until it isn't convenient for her to be mad anymore (aka she needs something) and then she will magically forget everything bad that happened. It annoys the hell out of me.
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It depends. On big stuff I say yes my parents hold big gruges.!
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Nope, neither one does!
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My dad doesn't at first. But if people disappoint him too many times he just writes them off completely and moves on with his life. My mom is very forgiving.
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Nope, not that I can tell! Our family doesn't really "fight" though, so there's nothing to hold a grudge over. We're all pretty laid back.
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My dad doesn't, but my mom does.
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My parents are the opposite. My mom never stays mad for longer than a few hours, my dad on the other hand.......
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My dad doesn't, but my mom definitely does! That's why I don't tell her about fights Hubs and I have, because I don't want her to hate him!
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My father is terrible! Been remarried for 20 years and is still a scorned lover over my mother!
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@Bookworm: My MIL is the exact same way! It drives me nuts.
On Christmas she got mad about something on Facebook and actually went off on DH, saying she was done with him/what a bad person I was. refused to answer his phone calls. Then two days before we are to host Christmas with their family she talks to DH on the phone and acts like nothing happened. Even comes to our house and pretends everything is fine.
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@mrsmenow: so apparently your MIL and my mom are twins. Ugh. I hate that crap!!
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My LO is one and my mom still makes comments about not being in the delivery room. I can't take it anymore!
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My mom can. My aunt (dad's sister) made some comments over a year ago about my youngest sister and her boyfriend moving too fast/being naive, and my mom still gets really annoyed about it. She pretty much gets annoyed at anything that aunt does now. But my mom is a quiet stewer-- she would never come out and fight about it, she'll just complain about it to other people.
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My parents are good at forgiving and letting things go. I forgive and forget easily too!
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At other people yes. Not at their kids.
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My parents are very forgiving.
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Oh yes! My mum is the queen of grudge holders! She falls out with people left right and centre and remains "hurt" about things for a long time after.
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Mine don't, but MIL is the queen of grudges. She was upset at our wedding that she wasn't introduced into the reception (none of our parents were, except MIL's ex-husband, DH's dad, because he was a groomsman) and she felt that were were punishing her and not including her in our wedding. Never mind the fact that she flat out refused to do the mother-son dance when DH asked her. Oh, and we were supposed to lead her around our reception and introduce her to all of our friends. We got to hear about how horrible we are via phone while we were on our honeymoon.
Then I got pregnant, and DH told her via text, as he hadn't talked to her since the stupid honeymoon phone call. He then texted to tell her it was a girl. No response. Then she un-friended us on facebook because she was upset about only finding out our lives via facebook and it made her sad. I'm really hoping she'll chill out after the baby is actually born (any day now!).
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@FutureMrsMcK: your step mom sounds like my MIL. DH hasnt talked to her in over two years now, which is a good thing. Their relationship was not healthy.
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My parents don't. ILs do.
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My MIL does.
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