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  1. Mrs. Pickle

    blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts

    No. I couldn't buy him gifts online if we shared an email address!

  2. Adira

    wonderful pomelo / 30692 posts

    My parents have a joint e-mail! But it's mainly because only my mom actually checks it, haha. And I can't really picture my dad sending e-mails, though I know he knows how, haha.

    Hubs and I totally SHOULD have a joint account because he doesn't ever check his e-mail! Then maybe people would feel like they're getting e-mails from BOTH of us, instead of just me. And it wouldn't really matter if I continued getting all the mail I get, because Hubs would never check it and I could just let him know if he got an e-mail (actually, that happens now - I'll try to check his e-mail for him once a week and let him know if he has anything he should respond to).

  3. yellowbird

    honeydew / 7303 posts

    @babycanuck: uhhhhh nope! That would be weird. Dhs parents have one though!

  4. looch

    wonderful pear / 26210 posts

    My parents have a joint email as well, it works for them.

    I have a bunch of email accounts, as does my husband, but we don't have one that we share...well actually we do...it's the one that is linked to our website. We don't actively post to it anymore, but when we did, we'd get messages there and either one of us could check or respond. It was useful when we were planning our wedding.

  5. illumina

    pomelo / 5469 posts

    Nope! I don't see the need. We don't even know each other's passwords. Joint Facebook accounts seem a bit strange, also.

  6. LuLu Mom

    GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

    NO, we have seperate although I guess I don't use my personal account besides store emails so if DH would need it I woudl let him, but that would be strange to me? ha

    Totally think joint FB accounts are weird, I think if you can't trust your partner to have their own social media maybe you shouldn't have one at all?

  7. Dandelion

    watermelon / 14206 posts

    Nope...we had separate accounts before we met, there's no reason for either of us to give them up. For household stuff, we use my email, because I keep it more organized.

  8. psw27

    pomelo / 5220 posts

    no way... my DH never deletes his emails and never reads half of them, it would drive me nuts.

    Plus, it seems like something only super jealous people would feel the need to impose.... like a way of monitoring each other. If you don't trust your spouse they probably have a secret account anyway!

  9. TemperanceBrennan

    pear / 1998 posts

    We each have our own personal email account, but we started a joint account when we were getting married for vendors and staying organized. We use that account now for bills, email sign-ups, etc.

  10. snowjewelz

    wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

    We had a shared one from our wedding... We will probably use it when we send out "couple" news or e-invitations in the future, but we definitely have separate email accounts. I wouldn't want people to hesitate to email either of us because they think that they have to be emailing the BOTH of us! Plus it would be so difficult to tell everyone my email changed; I have been using mine for a long time, ever since gmail began! We look at each other's emails anyway.

  11. mrsjyw

    GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts

    We don't. And we probably never will. I have access to DH's e-mail from doing a few favors for him, but I never check it unless he asks me to. I'm not sure if DH knows my email pw, but I woudln't care if he did. neither of us really use email aside from notifications, so that's why we wouldn't create a third, s hared account!

  12. purrpletulips

    pomegranate / 3414 posts

    We have a shared "family" email for things that we both need to know but only allows one email; however we also each still have our own emails as well.

  13. mediagirl

    hostess / wonderful persimmon / 25556 posts

    No! And why!?!? I hate this!!!

  14. bushelandapeck

    pomelo / 5720 posts

    My SIL and BIL have one but my sister also has her own work email so I always use that one. It drives me crazy to think he would read something meant for her before she had a chance to. We know each others passwords but that's it.

  15. edelweiss

    grapefruit / 4923 posts

    we do not, but i think, like @tinyperson: mentioned, there are instances in which a couple would want a joint email account. i just wouldn't keep track of an extra account though.

  16. prettylizy

    GOLD / papaya / 10206 posts

    @Leialou: I had the same thought, then he'd know what I bought him, or myself for that matter! lol!

    I can't imagine how annoyed he'd be with all my HB notifications either.

  17. birdofafeather

    pineapple / 12053 posts

    Nope. I hate the way DH keeps his email organized and he would hate how many emails my girlfriends send!

  18. Andrea

    GOLD / wonderful coffee bean / 18478 posts

    I have a few friends who write me personal emails from a joint account and I never understood it!

  19. BSB

    hostess / wonderful apple seed / 16729 posts

    We have one that I created for our wedding and some of the home bills are setup with that account.

    I don't use it to email users, unless I'm sending an email to thank someone for a gift.

    Although, it might be a joint email account, I don't think the DH knows the email address and password to access it.

    ETA: Oh, we definitely have our own individual emails accounts that are the ones we primarily use. The joint account is used now and then.
    Yeah, joint FB accounts confuse me.

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