Mine does not. At all. He didn't when we were dating so i'm not expecting them to start anytime soon, my sisters SO will walk up behind her and start rubbing her shoulders for no reason, it's sweet.
What about you guys? Foot or back massages happen in your house?
honeydew / 7667 posts
Backrub with a doctors note or lots of puh-leases. Either way they don't last very long.
No way would he ever give me a foot rub. Maybe if KUed, we shall see.
pomegranate / 3809 posts
Mine rarely does. He didn't do it much when we were dating either so he likes to remind me that there was no false advertising. On the contrary, I used to a lot when we were dating, and now I don't as much... so it may be worse in his shoes.
hostess / wonderful watermelon / 39513 posts
Nope but he scratches my back occasionally if I ask!
apricot / 491 posts
When I was pregnant he gave me one almost every day. Otherwise, just occasionally.
blogger / pear / 1964 posts
He likes them, so he knows I need a occasional one if he's to get anything in return. I love foot rubs, but DH read something about foot massages sending women into pre-term labor, so he's refused to do them during the last 9 months. I can't wait to hit 40 weeks so they can resume again!
pomegranate / 3204 posts
He will do it if I ask! Foot rubs are my favorite so he tries to do them often but he always complains after a few minutes how his hands hurt lol
pomegranate / 3716 posts
He gives the most amazing foot massages!! Sometimes he'll pretend that he only wants to do one foot, and then I have to beg him to do the other!
GOLD / watermelon / 14076 posts
All the time! He gives me back massages at least a few times a week. And we have a deal that if I am watching sports with him, he has to give me a foot massage, so I get those a lot, too!
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Not nearly enough. More likely he will give me a super fast, like, 1 minute one, and then claim he is tired. He promised me one like 4 nights ago and I'm still waiting.
I always feel like my feet are too stinky to enjoy a foot massage!
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
He does, but his massages hurt me! So I only ask for them when I really need one
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
Very rarely we give each other back massages. He will not touch my feet, which depresses me to no end lol.
admin / watermelon / 14210 posts
Yes he does! I have a lot of tension in my shoulders. I don't reciprocate because its easier for him with his big hands and my small shoulders and hard for me with my small hands and his big shoulders.
pear / 1787 posts
Yes, if I ask! I give him back massages pretty frequently too, though my hands get sore really fast.
admin / wonderful grape / 20724 posts
@sweetchic: Haha does he really "pretend"? Or does he just not want to do both feet!!
pomegranate / 3160 posts
Ohhhhh yes. Pretty much almost nightly if he's around. It's fabulous. He's a winner. 
GOLD / eggplant / 11517 posts
@mrbee: says he isn't a 'foot person'. If I had ugly feet I might understand but they are pretty as far as feet go, in my opinion...
bananas / 9628 posts
@highwire: DH is the same way about feet. They gross him out to no end!
He will, but usually when he wants something else 
or if I'm sore he will, but those ones huuurt! They are productive though.
eggplant / 11824 posts
Yup almost every day. He brushes my hair too, which I like more than a massage!
GOLD / wonderful pea / 17697 posts
Constantly when I was pregnant, occasionally otherwise.
GOLD / wonderful apricot / 22646 posts
Yep! Just got a back rub! I think his incentive (outside of pregnancy) is he likes them from me too ;P
nectarine / 2522 posts
He's does if I ask. I find it hard to relax though. On the other hand I LOVE giving them- even own a massage table! So DH gets them often... I love the oil smell, the relaxation music... And ofcourse touching my husband
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