my friend that just got married 1 week ago, is all ready pregnant? so happy for her but then everyone around me is preggers! but me! hopefully that will be me soon! cant help but get discouraged anyone else?
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Ugh...this was me. We had been TTC for 8 months before I got pregnant and miscarried. I'm not lying when I say that there were 10, count them, 10 pregnant women on my floor. I couldn't avoid them. It was absolute torture.
Hang in there! Hoping it happens for you soon!
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@2PeasinaPod: well i am glad i am not alone on this one, and that had to stink! so sorry for your miscarriage i wish u the best of luck! and thanks! me too!
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@BrentLee88: Keep in mind that on average, it takes 6 months to get pregnant. And up to a year is still considered normal. Chill out and enjoy the ride
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@Mrs.Someone: thank you! and i will
just need to quite worrying because it isn't healthy either..... lol i am not a very patient person when it comes to waiting
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@Mrs.Someone: Ditto the "Chill out and enjoy the ride :)"! The earlier you get discouraged, the worse this journey will be. Things take time!
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@LindsayInNYC: Thank you!, and yes you are right!
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@LindsayInNYC: this!
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I always felt like this since starting TTC - and I don't know if it's that I am sensitive to it now or people really are just popping out babies left and right!
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Luckily I do not have many people who are pregnant in my social circle...
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i swear, the minute anyone starts TTC - EVERYONE gets preggo around them - it's like a law of physics.... happened to me for sure.... you'll get there soon!
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Hang in there! The same thing happened to me and it felt like torture! But as soon as I got my BFP, I felt like it was all just part of my journey. It will happen for you soon.
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@BrentLee88: Oh girl, I know how you feel!! We had a CP last November, and since, have been trying. Yesterday, I found out my 24 y/o cousin & her hubby are expecting their 3rd baby ... And, a lot of our friends/neighbors are pregnant too. I think you notice a lot more ... It's like when you buy a new car (you never notice that kind until you own it). Best of luck that you'll be joining the club soon!!
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@chibee: i totally agree!
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@pui: u are very lucky but maybe perhaps u will be the one preggo soon
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@hellobeeboston: i fell u on that one, when we weren't ttc we never really saw pregnant women or commercials but since we have been ttc it is EVERYWHERE cant get away from it!
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@Mrs Spoon: thanks a both! yeah makes u learn alot that is for sure! lol
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@VEGMAMA: oh yeah i feel the same way stinks! but it will happen soon i know it and best of luck to you as well!!! thanks!
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I got married in April 2012 and we began trying immediately. I had one good friend get married in July and another in November of that year. Both were pregnant by December on their 1st/2nd try. It was devastating. The feeling is completely natural, but just have faith that your time will come. Thanks to IUI we were pregnant by January so I'm not too far behind them.
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@marionberry: yeah i think every girl feels this way while ttc, and congrads!!!
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All I notice when I'm out are people that are pregnant or having little ones. I cannot for my life turn my brain off of seeing these things. I know how you feel.
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When we were TTC it definitely felt that way as well.
I hated people telling me this too when I was TTC but it rang true for me. When I stopped stressing and just let it be was when we got a BFP (big fat positive) 9 cycles in.
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@babycanuck: agreed!
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@regberadaisy: I have been thinking positive alot this weekend! i think it may help me alot as well!
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