Today is DS's birthday. I would usually be having a party for him but.... My grandma is in the hospital with a brain aneurysm and possible surgery today. So I am not having a party for him. Considering the circumstances I have no idea what to do for him for his birthday. I feel almost like I'm short changing him by not throwing a party but even if I did throw a party everyone would be at the hospital. What do I do? Please give me ideas.