My 2nd son is having surgery this week to get a gtube placed in his belly. Even though we were told that he would need a feeding tube in the future, at birth, it feels like a big old fail. My oldest son has a feeding tube for a completely different reason (eating disorder related) and this son is getting one because he aspirates every time he drinks. Anyways I just feel like a crappy mom. For sure our little life could be so much harder!! But I do feel kind of worn out lately, haggard haha.

Any mamas have kids with feeding tubes? And does anyone have one just for aspiration issues?