I'm the first one to admit that 99% of the time we argue, it's because I'm upset. DH is def more laid back, but I also like to think that I'm more conscious of trying not to make mistakes LOL (tootin my own horn.)
In your relationship, do your arguments stem from you or your DH being upset? 
blogger / pomelo / 5361 posts
Me! DH is laid back and goes with the flow mostly, so most "fights" we have are because I'm upset. We don't have many big fights because as I said, he's laid back and usually just wants to make everything right. Money is the one thing that he'll start a fight about.
wonderful cherry / 21504 posts
Yup, most fights are because I'm upset about something. I'd like to say it shows I care?
hostess / eggplant / 11068 posts
Hubs is the most easy-going person on earth so our arguments are always because I'm upset. LOL.
coconut / 8234 posts
Ha! Usually because of me. DH is super chill and laid back. A little too laid back sometimes.
hostess / wonderful honeydew / 32460 posts
We usually don't argue.. But when we do it's because I'm nagging DH to do something. Or I'm pissed because he hasnt done what i asked him to do x hours ago
blogger / wonderful cherry / 21628 posts
We usually don't argue, but when we do it's because my husband is upset. He is a lot more emotional than I am.
honeydew / 7504 posts
Hubs and I rarely fight. When we do, it's usually because he's pissed off about something and is stewing about it, which makes me mad. So I make him talk about it, and he gets mad. We end up arguing more about me making him talk about it then whatever it was that he was mad about it in the first place.
wonderful olive / 19353 posts
We're another couple that hardly fight, but when we do it kind of explodes because I've just had it with letting him get by with chores/helping around the house or being inconsiderate towards me (e.g. didn't acknowledge our first anniversary, didn't display enthusiasm or joy for me when I got promoted, etc).
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts
Sadly it's usually me. DH can let things roll off his back, but when I"m in a mood I let it be known! I don't like to keep things in because then it just boils up and I usually get upset about something little (with a bigger thing behind it.) I try to let him know what made me upset when it happens so we can talk it through.
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