...is still not sttn at 21 months.

I just assumed that babies who didn't sleep were the result of parents who hadn't tried hard enough. Karma is a bi-..., uh, ahem, a wench!
I definitely thought (at least subconsciously) if I followed the 'rules' my baby would eat well, sleep well and be unusually verbal for her age (which I would modestly downplay in conversations with other moms, lol). Um, not so much.

What about you?