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Can I just vent here a little bit too? Ugh, so this is the 3rd cycle in a row now that I've bled on CD13. Like exact same day and everything. I'm taking Provera on CD42 to induce my period because they don't come on their own ever.

Last cycle I went in to talk to the Dr. about my CD13 bleeding (which isn't just spotting, it's like full-on I need a tampon bleeding) He just brushed it off as break-through bleeding. Umm okay, but how are we supposed to BD when I'm bleeding 1/2 the frickin' time!? It's just annoying the crap out of me...

So who knows if I will even POAS later this month...I have a feeling I should probably just stay off these threads and not get my hopes up.

@MrsBrewer: can you talk to your doc again? Or get another opinion? That seems weird, is it the same time a O??

I think I O'd a little later than normal this month. We bd a little too early anyway, then work travel happened in the middle of our window. AF is due this week - having ZERO pregnancy-like symptoms. With my first pregnany my boobs were killing early... We will see - a couple more days.

@MrsBrewer: Are there other doctors in your practice that maybe you can get a second opinion from?

The one I've been seeing since my MC is WAY more conservative and "let's wait and see" than the doctor I was seeing before our last BFP (but the one I've been seeing is more compassionate than the more progressive one...so it's not like I dislike either of them). If we don't get a BFP in the next couple months, I think I'll be going back to the original doctor. Even before we were "trying" to get pregnant, she told me at my last annual to come see her if we didn't get KU within 6 months.

@MaryM: My doctor that I'm seeing right now definitely sounds like your "progressive" one. He pretty much told me at my last appt that I will be pregnant within a year, and not to stress about it. But I totally am!! Yes though, there are other doctors in the practice that I could see for sure. I will definitely keep that open as an option.

@Annette: I have no idea if it's that or not! I normally have my normal period from CD 1-4. This is like actual heavy bleeding right now, including cramps and all, just like a normal period would be!

I won't give up on the boards, I'll just try not to be a Debbie Downer....I am going to make an apt with my doctor again within the next month or two....(I also just emailed him asking about my bleeding)

I am so happy to be back and joining this thread again! We had taken a few months off, but this morning, we had our first IUI!!! I am a nervous wreck, but my POAS date will be July 14th.

Love, prayer and happy thoughts to everyone this month!!!!

@mrsmccarthy: you are so sweet! You always have something nice to say!

@KelLeeLeee: I think your timing is good still!!! You have an excellent chance! Fx for you!

Cd 21 here and no signs of O. Ugh.

@yellowbird: @Annette: CD 22 Here and also no sign of O, but BB's are sore. Hoping its a good sign.

The TWW is such a mind game! I'm at 7 DPO today and feeling pessimistic because I feel absolutely nothing, symptoms-wise. A few random twinges & cramps, and was SUPER sleepy from 1-5 DPO, but I think that was just from the school year ending. But then again, last month I was convinced I was KU because I had such strong cramps 7-8 DPO and that ended in a BFN.

@KelLeeLeee: I agree! I think you still had really good timing! Think of all the people who get KU without OPKs just by DTD EOD

I'm frustrated because I hate how long it takes to confirm O via temps! My last + was Sunday and my temp is still low. BOO!! Let's get this show on the road!

I'm really worried maybe all the meds I was on could lead to a month of not ovulating, but that's somewhat irrational because I have nothing to support that yet.

But just in case, I might have jumped DH last night. I think he thought I was insane. I'm not sure if we've EVER hit it three days in a row. lol

Not having good vibes for this cycle… AF is due today. I did test yesterday and bfN, may have been too early. My temps are slowing dropping and it's making me depressed! I know "it's not over until AF is here" but my temps aren't very promising. My official POAS date is 7/3…I guess we shall see!

@HappyBluebird: I'm in the same boat as you, except AF hasn't shown up yet - I tested yesterday and got a BFN (at 10DPO, so I guess there's still a chance.) But otherwise, I have such long cycles that I won't be testing until mid-August. Booo.

@raspberries: 10DPO is still early so there's still hope!! FX for you! I hope you get a BFP but if not at least we have someone else to wait it out with! How long are your cycles usually? My last one was 37 days. Each one gets longer by 2-4 days. It's extremely annoying.

Kinda bummed I won't get to POAS in July but everyone else's BFPs will keep me positive!

@nicolechris11212: Good luck to you! It's not over till' it's over!

@HappyBluebird: Ugh, that sounds totally annoying! Over the last four months, my cycles have been 35 days, 45, 38, and 41 - so I think they're evening out to right around 40 days? I'm on CD39 now, so who the heck knows? This is only my second cycle TTC so I can't really complain, haha. It sucks to have longer cycles, but at least we're in this together!