I'm not sure if this is the right place for this but here it goes:

Would you consider being a foster parent to the child of a relative? Pros and cons?

So far I have this:
Baby will be with family : If mother doesn't get her life together we can adopt and ensure baby remains with family

Stress of family input in our decisions
Drama that birth mother might bring
Problems baby might have growing up
Balancing two babies (newborn and our own 3MO)

I'm leaning towards yes because it's family but I'm not sure that's a strong enough reason in itself. We already planned on me being a SAHM which I think gives me an advantage to better handle the situation but I figured I could ask for advice/opinions.

Thank you.