I've been reading the boards for a few months now, but this is my first post! I have a TTC problem! Basically my best friend who lives in Az is getting married and I'm her MOH. I live in Pa and obviously a 4 hour plane ride is required to attend the wedding. Well my husband and I are starting our 3rd cycle TTC and if we are successful this month or next month the likelihood of attending the wedding are slim. I'm torn between putting a hiatus on TTC to be a loyal friend and continuing this TTC adventure. When I did bring up my problem with the bride, she was less then sympathetic and basically said "wrap it up" for two months. What would you do?