Maybe twin parents can chime in here. My daughter really loves playing with a girl at her school who happens to have a twin sister that my daughter doesn't play with that often. She asked to play with her outside of school. As they are just 4 years old, do I request a playdate for the 3 of them or request just the twin my daughter enjoys playing with?

To complicate matters - the parent is a single parent with an older child, as well. So, I'm thinking maybe a park play date where they can all come and play?

Selfishly, I'd like my daughter to have her friend to herself. She's the type to make one or two good friends and not play with a crowd. But, I feel for the single parent having to juggle everyone.

How would you pose having a playdate in this situation?