So my best friend from high school is turning 30 and her husband is throwing her a small birthday party. We're not nearly as close as we used to be, but we both recently had babies, so we've gotten together a couple times for play-dates, which I think is why I was invited to her birthday party. We haven't exchanged birthday presents in YEARS... should I get her something??? And if so, what???? I also don't know if other people are bringing gifts and I don't want to be the only jerk that does bring one (or the only jerk that doesn't)! Help!