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Are you able to put LO in a daycare or have your mom watch her maybe 1 day a week just to get into a new groove? And then maybe twice a week when you think you might start TTC?

The last month of my pregnancy with my twins my son was watched by my dad and sister. They brought him to me for naps so I got to lay with him for a bit. It was a bummer but it was just what had to happen. I felt guilty and sad but I did adjust and enjoyed the time I got more.

If pregnancy is so difficult on you is adoption an option for growing your family or would you rather have biological children?

I have very difficult pregnancies due to hyperemesis gravidarum. I knew I would be limited in my time with DD if I was pregnant because I would be so sick, and I also started a grad program about a month after I found out I was pregnant again. It was hard (very hard) at times because I was working,going to school, and miserably sick. I felt a lot of guilt that I wasn't able to spend as much time with DD. But having another child was very important to me, and it was only 9 months of suffering for a lifetime of joy and love from another baby. And seeing DD and DS together makes me forget about those difficult 9 months. Reducing some of your individual time together is a sacrafice you have to come to terms with if you have more than one child, but I think most people thinks its a sacrafice worth making.