It took soooooo long for us to decide on names we really liked...probably since we met, so 9 years now. We finally had a boy name and a girl name we loved, and it just happened that they both started with the same initial as my deceased grandfather's name, which is a naming tradition in DH's culture.

But I've had a horrible dream about my grandfather since finding out about our recent m/c and I don't think I can ever use those names now, especially since I was wearing a necklace from my grandfather the whole time I was pregnant. It sucks because I really really liked those names and I'm picky! We are for sure not using initials of relatives in the future, and I don't know what names could replace the ones I liked!