I realized I'd never really seen any stretch marks in real life before my own - every other mom I know either didn't have them or hides them.

I've been thinking a lot lately about how to raise my son so he sees my stomach and thinks Wow instead of Ew. If everyone hides their stretchmarks doesnt that further the harmful illusion that every woman can and should want to look like her prebaby self?

DH does think and say Wow not Ew, and after reading other spouses hurtful comments on HB I am thankful!