I uses to be one of those people who changed her hair all the time. I've had pretty much every color of hair, from bright cherry cola red to bleach blonde and everything in between. I've also had every length, the shortest being a stacked bob with the longest pieces in front just touching my chin. I've had blunt bangs and side swept, no bangs and layers.

But. I've had my long, red hair for quite awhile now -- about 4 years. I've recently thought about coloring my hair a dark chocolate brown...I thought I'd decided for sure and didn't think much of it, until I wondered how I'd feel about not being a redhead anymore. I thought about my 5.5 month old son and if he'd recognize his mama. I thought about my wedding photos and my cascading auburn waves...

Do you think I should just go for it?! I've never been a person who bases her identity on looks, but I'm second-guessing my choice. I guess a little perspective is in order...I could always go back to red!