Have you ever gotten a gift from SO that you didn't like?

By snowjewelz Nov 10, 2015

We don't really do gifts b/c I am so picky about stuff! I didn't ask for anything for my birthday, but DH got me jewelry anyway which is sooo sweet of him, but you guessed it; I don't really like it, lol. I'm still wearing it to show appreciation though... But this is why I don't want gifts!! Very few people can buy me clothing/jewelry/accessories. My mom even just gets it right like 80% of the time.

I think I really need to let him know that I have wish lists on Amazon and Etsy :silly:

But it is still really sweet of him, don't get me wrong! :happy: :heart:

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Mrs. Lemon-Lime
wonderful pea / 17279 posts

Nov 10, 2015

Yes, when we were dating he bought me earrings. I said they were cute and he was butt-hurt! I mean, they are diamond studs in the shape of a flower. They are sweet/cute. If we have a girl they will go to her rightaway!
rachiecakes
coconut / 8279 posts

Nov 10, 2015

He means well but yeah.. My husband bought me some ski pants one year. They were very stylish, expensive designer (a designer I adore) ski pants. But this was after J was born, I can't do lowrise anymore. I also don't ski, never have nor do I have a reason to wear ski pants. And they were a size so small I will never wear again.
looch
wonderful pear / 26210 posts

Nov 10, 2015

Almost, but I gently pointed him in another direction and every year since then he's been great.
IRunForFun
pomelo / 5509 posts

Nov 10, 2015

Haha yes. DH typically gets me one "big" gift and that's always well-received (an iPad, a DSLR, etc) but then he'll give me a few other small gifts that I know are meant to be practical but I'm like...these aren't things I want to receive as a present. Like...Tupperware, an electric toothbrush, an air compressor...if I need them I'd rather buy those things myself and get fun gifts!
snowjewelz
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@Mrs. Lemon-Lime: aww. that would be the sweestest re-gift!

@rachiecakes: haha it's like 5 levels of wrong that's the thing.. they mean so well! I don't have the heart to ever tell him I don't like them

@looch: good job! the thing is, he knows how picky I am too! but I think no one knows how picky I really am but me...
snowjewelz
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@IRunForFun: hahaha I got an electric tooth brush too before! Granted, I was so glad he introduced me to them!
LuLu Mom
GOLD / wonderful olive / 19030 posts

Nov 10, 2015

When we were dating he bought me a ring/necklace combo. It was not my style but i wore the ring every day until we got engaged. The necklace I didn't wear often (i'm not much of a necklace person.) But i did pin the necklace pennant under my wedding dress as my something blue!
LBee
pomegranate / 3895 posts

Nov 10, 2015

He did at the beginning of us dating, but quickly learned to rely on wish lists or hints.

@IRunForFun: HA! One time DH got me a red old school phone that you plug into your cell phone's jack. It was the randomest gift ever. I had never expressed a desire for said gift and it seemed like such a random purchase.
IRunForFun
pomelo / 5509 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@snowjewelz: LOL I think if I had expressed interest or asked for it then it would have been different but I actually don't like electric toothbrushes. So it was just kinda like...thanks? I don't use it now after two years, whoops.
Mrs. Lemon-Lime
wonderful pea / 17279 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@IRunForFun: a BF gave me an electronic toothbrush at my request. I was so happy with that gift.
IRunForFun
pomelo / 5509 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@LBee: Haha oh man that's awesome! Did you ever use it?
LBee
pomegranate / 3895 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@IRunForFun: Of course not. I use my phone the normal way like everyone else. I can't imagine picking up the phone and being like, "wait one second, let me plug in my retro headset." Now I'm wondering where it is, though.
LadyPantaloons
grape / 80 posts

Nov 10, 2015

Yes, I always seem to get sports equipment - which is great that he wants to share his interests with me. I'd never buy him painting lessons, ya know? The golf clubs I got last Christmas have still not been used. The worst part is that I asked for a sweater, I was very specific about which sweater, which was a fraction of the price of golf clubs... and I had to go buy the sweater anyways!
snowjewelz
wonderful kiwi / 23653 posts

Nov 10, 2015

@LBee: hahahha! maybe he secretly liked it and wanted it for himself?!

@LadyPantaloons: ack! golf clubs are expensive too! I'd seceretly sell them, hahahaha.
yoursilverlining
eggplant / 11824 posts

Nov 10, 2015

haha, we'll just leave it at "yes" and "this is why we do experience gifts only now"
BabyBoecksMom
GOLD / papaya / 10166 posts

Nov 10, 2015

There have been a few times, but mainly, I just set up an Amazon wishlist. I love that I can add anything from any website as well.

@yoursilverlining: HA!
twodoghouse
honeydew / 7230 posts

Nov 10, 2015

DH usually relies on asking me what I'd like, but occasionally he picks something on his own for me and I love that! My first Mother's Day we had 8 day old twins and he snuck out to get me earrings with their birth stone. They aren't what I would have chosen, but they are so precious to me. I love that he chose them himself!
simplyfelicity
cantaloupe / 6634 posts

Nov 10, 2015

DH got me a phone battery back up and a purse clip... I haven't used either but appreciated the thought!
NCSUchick27
clementine / 995 posts

Nov 10, 2015

He got me a laundry hamper one year for my birthday. Womp womp... He is not the best with thinking up good gifts. Now I just tell him exactly what I want. He is all about practical presents.
Chuckles
persimmon / 1495 posts

Nov 10, 2015

Yes and I felt so bad that I didn't like it. He works in a building with a lot of artists and designers, so he picked out a one of a kind set of earrings and matching necklace. He meant well but they were so not my style. I have only worn them a couple of times when I know its just going to be the two of us
Mrs. D
pear / 1852 posts

Nov 10, 2015

A pair of earrings when we were first dating. They weren't my style, still aren't.
I wore them a couple of times, then put aside.
MaryM
pomelo / 5129 posts

Nov 10, 2015

Honestly the gifts I have liked the least, he put the least amount of thought into. So I doubt he's noticed if they aren't my favorites. But the things he's really thought about have been great (especially jewelry wise). And he knows when he doesn't have a clue what to get, a spa GC will get used.

Gifts from MIL on the other hand...
MOMTOLITTLEB
persimmon / 1188 posts

Nov 10, 2015

I'm usually not too crazy about his gifts. He doesn't really get my taste and is kind of lazy about shopping anyway.

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